My Bf broke up with me the ohter day because I would't have sex with him and he siad if I change my mind that we would get back together I want to but I don't want to have sex HELP!
2006-11-30 00:25:13 · 45 answers · asked by Kaylaluv 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That is horrible.
If you do this, he will continue to use emotional blackmail to get other things from you until he is bored with you.
Don't do it...you are worthy of love and respect. He is not giving you that.
2006-11-30 00:29:50 · answer #1 · answered by Barbara 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
U know what, he is not even worth the try. Its not about sex anymore, its about him not respecting ur decisions, it just makes me wonder that he is with u not because he loves u and accepts u for who u really are and believe in but for the SEX, forget it, imagine if u stay together, what? Every time he wants something from u that he cant get he's just gonna breakup with u. Find someone who is more mature for u and who values a relationship a little better. Sorry Hun but the truth is tough and sometimes we have to do things we find hard in order to keep are values and honor as a women of respect. U did great (believe it or not). I'm proud that u didn't give it up. Thanx
2006-11-30 00:47:38 · answer #2 · answered by chinaz777 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm very proud of you sweetie. Do not ever let anyone pressure you into doing something your not comfortable with. If you give in now just to keep a jerk around, you will find in life that you will continue to follow the easy path of outside pressures. You go girl, stay strong and you will become a very great person.
2006-11-30 00:32:41 · answer #3 · answered by loser 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you ought to not in any respect do something which you do no longer choose to do. i comprehend which you probable care approximately your boyfriend plenty, and are scared via the considered him breaking apart with you. yet it quite is not any reason to have intercourse with him in case you're no longer waiting to do it. I recommend which you clarify on your boyfriend which you're basically no longer waiting to have intercourse with him, and that it might recommend plenty to you if he stopped pressuring you to do it. Be business enterprise approximately this, and don't permit him guilt you or push you around. it is your physique, and you ought to not do something with it which you do no longer experience mushy doing. I doubt that he will injury up with you subsequently, and if he does then he's unquestionably no longer the form of guy which you quite choose to be courting besides. If he incredibly loves you, he will choose what's nice for you, and could be keen to attend till you're waiting to have intercourse.
2016-12-14 09:39:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't that is all he wants!!! When you have sex he will leave you anyway. He thinks if he tells you that you will come running back to him. Then you have sex and then he dumps you again!!! Oh and they will always use the love word to get what they want!!! Please they don't even know what it means. Sex is not love!!! Good Luck!!!
2006-11-30 00:52:50 · answer #5 · answered by d3midway semi-retired 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go.
If he's dumped you cause you're not ready to have sex thenm he's a complete prick and you can do without him! You're not ready to have sex, so you're not ready. End of discussion.
Dont be upset - you found out early what this guy is really like. Better not to have had sex with someone like that anyway. Well done for sticking to your principles.
2006-11-30 00:27:31 · answer #6 · answered by Leiani 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
honey get urself a new boyfriend i say... if he broke up with u because u wouldnt have sex then he is only with u so he can get laid...... find urself a man that will wait for u to be ready and not try and push u for it or give u ultimations... so piss him off and get a real man...
2006-11-30 01:20:52 · answer #7 · answered by angelindisguise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie sometimes a blessing comes in disguise if ur not ready then ur not never let no one pressure u into anything things happen for a reason take that lesson of learning and move on ur not a anyones sex toy
2006-11-30 00:31:34 · answer #8 · answered by Cnj77060 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Thats emotional blackmail. If he loved you he would wait until you are ready instead he trys to force you to do what you dont want to. Move on sis ,find another guy, this one is not the right guy for you. Good luck!!!
2006-11-30 00:28:08 · answer #9 · answered by elaeblue 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you dont measure love in just sex.. and a guy should respect the girls decision when it comes to such thing.
a healthy relationship are those which are made of love, trust and respect with each other.
don't do it if it is against your will.. he just want you because of sex and not because of you as a person.
2006-11-30 00:31:41 · answer #10 · answered by labs 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋