I have a low self esteem problem. I always feel as if my boyfriend is gonna cheat on me because another woman looks better than me. I'm kinda scared because he's told me countless numbers of times that he's getting annoyed with me and my insecurities. I don't want to annoy him to the point that he'll leave me, but I'm afraid I'm going to lose him anyway to another woman. I can't help but to feel insecure-to me it just comes so naturally. When ever I see another woman I just feel she's is better than me. Help me! What can I do??????
2006-11-30 00:22:08 · 5 answers · asked by Kitty Kat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i feel the same way I'm insecure and pregnant he tells me all the time that he loves me.... but people keeps tell in me he would not be with you if he wanted to be with someone else and if you don't stop with these insecurities you will lose him.. he will only take so much.....this will bring him down..
chill out he loves you or he wouldn't be there
2006-11-30 00:28:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy and low self esteem is a huge huge turn off. Keep telling yourself to cool it and that he is going home with you, not them. Keep thinking about how irritating it must be for him to have to explain his feelings for you and how unattractive all this moping around must be for him. If that doesnt work then go for a belly dancing class or make up classes or get a new hairstyle,something that will make you feel more confident and sexy.If that doesn't work,then I have no advice for you.
2006-11-30 08:29:05 · answer #2 · answered by Jade22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cool down, girl.....just try to think in another way.....take everything as it comes......do not be afraid of changes.....even if u can't, don't tell him.....at least act like u're very confident......in that way, he'll be more drawn to u......maybe try to change your look n' outfits just for fun......dress up at look at the mirror n' be satisfied with yourself before going out with him......good luck
2006-11-30 08:29:43 · answer #3 · answered by Marijuana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could try making an effort to look better... Hair, clothes, shoes, whatever... Of course, you might find that other women are jealous of you, because of your boyfriend... :D
2006-11-30 08:26:44 · answer #4 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Damn girl, would you listen to yourself? I don't even know you and I'm annoyed! Just STOP IT! STOP IT RIGHT NOW!
2006-11-30 08:29:33 · answer #5 · answered by rebecca_sld 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋