ok so i go to College with the guy that i really like, but my whole problem is that im afraid to tell him that i like him because i dont want to runin our friendship. i dont know what to do. should i tell him or shouldnt i?
2006-11-30 00:21:46 · 11 answers · asked by racechick0525 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should tell him for the following reasons:
1. If you don't and he dates someone else, it will hurt you.
2. If he truly cares about you as a friend but doesn't want to date you, he'll still be your friend.
3. If he truly is your friend, you have nothing to lose and a romance to gain.
4. If you don't tell him, you'll always wonder what would have happened if you did ask him.
5. When you have an opportunity at love, you have to go for it.
I wish you luck, and I hope you tell him how you feel.
2006-11-30 00:31:22 · answer #1 · answered by tannedknight45 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How good of friends are you? If you're just friends and not really close, then it might be worth it to let him know. However, if you are really good friends, then I would be honest with him and tell him. But you could sort of add a disclaimer with it and say, that you weren't even going to tell him because you thought it might make things awkward, but you didn't want to keep anything from him either. Good luck. Or, you could always get drunk, or pretend to be drunk, let it slip....and then if you get bad results, blame it on the booze.;)
2006-11-30 00:24:45 · answer #2 · answered by hollymccartney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are...if you like him you have flirted with him, but in a friendly way. So he should KNOW you like him just because of that, but if he hasn't flirt more but don't go overboard. Also Let HIM make the first move, if he wants you, he will make it. So just sit back and let it happen.
2006-11-30 00:25:25 · answer #3 · answered by bigdaddy052171@verizon.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't break your head, concentrate on your studies and when you have graduated and established your future, then tell him that you like him if he is still worthy.
2006-11-30 00:27:45 · answer #4 · answered by markos m 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him, maybe he has the hots for you but is too shy to say so.
2006-11-30 00:23:05 · answer #5 · answered by John Scary 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u like him tell him. he may fill same. life to short to mess around live life to full hun.
goodluck
xxxx
2006-11-30 00:24:30 · answer #6 · answered by alan h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shuld let him now slowly. likespending more time with him or getting him stuff and maybe it will just happen
2006-11-30 00:25:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to take chances every once in a while.()
2006-11-30 00:23:40 · answer #8 · answered by Saint 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my experience...
better u tell him u like him...
2006-11-30 00:22:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him...love is so important, go for it!
2006-11-30 01:42:34 · answer #10 · answered by silentorderso4life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋