ok i get mad n annoying but i cant control it it's hormones you know...so when i say sorry for sthg stupid i've done then i blame it on my period (bec it's true) he's never convinced...he's not talking to me 4 a week now i said sorry alot but it doesnt make nething better!!! what should i do???
2006-11-30 00:20:08 · 22 answers · asked by M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe you are just using that as an excuse.
2006-11-30 00:23:29 · answer #1 · answered by redbull_photo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all the reason why guys do not understand the emotional changes that you have during your period is because they do not have the hormonal influx that we do every month. Second women tend to use there period as an excuse to finally let go on all the crap they have been wanting to say for 28 days to the people in their life. Just judge whether you behavior toward your friends was irrational and just hormonal or was it a build up all month and you finally got to say what you wished. Take this as a lesson your hormones are not an excuse to let loose your feelings if you are mad or upset at someone let them know at the time and don't wait for the "crimson wave" to sweep you away. It is a lot easier to accept a sorry from someone when they don't rationalize it with a bodily function.
2006-11-30 08:28:28 · answer #2 · answered by yp_lena_albuquerque 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you two been dating? If you two just started dating, then he may not believe it when you are going to the PMS card when you get mad at him for no reason or say something hurtful. However, if you two have been dating for awhile then he should know when you are on your mentral cycle and should be understanding. As a guy who was raised with a bunch of women, I know the PMS is real and should be handled with kid gloves.
On the other hand, you really need to do your part and try like hell to control yourself when you are having the mentral cramps. Mix in some Midol if you need too. Usually when I have ever been in a relationship, I usually like to avoid her as much as possible when she is having the PMS mood swings. I come back when it is all better. It is good for everyone involved.
2006-11-30 08:26:50 · answer #3 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men have no idea when it comes to hormones. Thats something we women have to learn to accept I'm afraid.
You should try and do something about it though - if its your moods try taking kalms or some other herbal calming stress relieving medication around that time. If its cramps etc and its making you mad cause you're in pain try star flower oil every day - this reduces your cramps in your period time.
But, my best advice, you know you're in a mood even if you cant control it - so go be alone. Tell him the next time you get mad cause of your period you're going to go away in a room and be by yourself. Its nothing to do with him, you just dont want a fight. Hopefully that may save a few daft arguments
2006-11-30 08:24:19 · answer #4 · answered by Leiani 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most of us get the "that time of the month thing" and how it sucks for some women more than others but I find sometimes women use it to tear apart and get nasty at anything that crosses her path.
That's a no-no and better to walk away from. I once dated a woman who was a monster once a month. Told me all she wants is a understanding man to take her outbursts, shut the hell up and just give her a hug. Would you hug a monster who breaths fire or run to the hills? A doormat I am not!
2006-11-30 08:30:35 · answer #5 · answered by Cdn_Superdave 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because your on your period isn't a fee ticket to act like a toal biotch. All the sorries in the world aren't worth a tampon to this guy. You screwed up. Get on birth control, and get your hormones checked.
2006-11-30 08:29:12 · answer #6 · answered by ruthie a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's definitely okay to be a little bitchy when you are bleeding but if straight up throw out insults that's when it becomes out of line. When you feel like going off on someone then just take a deep breathe. Tell him now is not a good time to be talking to you and to go away for a few minutes.
2006-11-30 08:26:04 · answer #7 · answered by ProudToBeWhite 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys understand the period a lot more when you don't use it as an excuse. Even if it is true, it sounds like we make excuses for bad behavior when we pull out the PMS card. They really don't know what it's like, because they don't have them, and in all honesty it's not a good excuse for really bad behavior.
2006-11-30 08:24:23 · answer #8 · answered by Robin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he does not have sisters, otherwise he should know. Or else his sisters don't really suffer from hormonal imbalance during their periods. Get him to find out from his mum whether it's true about when a girl has her period, she tends to have her moods up and down. On your part, anticipate when your period is about to come, and try extra hard not to be unfair to him during those times.
2006-11-30 08:25:22 · answer #9 · answered by Lilliana 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when u feel moody and irratble try and stay to yourself before you hurt or annoy someone else. guys sometimes might not udnerstand the feeling women go thru during their period. mainly because they never experienced it. we cant blame them but we can control our feelings and dnt expect anyone to "understand" your mood swings. if you really think about it...if your bf had to get all suddenly moody, wouldnt that annoy you. write him a letter.
2006-11-30 08:24:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let him go because if he can't understand that then he won't be
able to understand other things that will come up in the relationship,you didn't create having a period he needs to take
that one up with God
2006-11-30 08:25:15 · answer #11 · answered by D lightfully Blessed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋