Ive got a famous girlpal (pretty, sexy, celebrity) and a hottie crush from school. I told the guy that someone's got a crush on him. I did this to give him a hint of the way i feel for him. When he guessed who it was, he pointed out my girlpal. I got hurt but didnt tell him he guessed it wrong, instead i told him that he's correct. I dont know what came up to me but i hooked them up with each other. Now, theyre flirting with each other...always talkin on the phone, texting, talking about sleazy stuff. I am hurt. My friend knows i really like the guy, but why is she still flirting or entertaining the guy. She told me, she'll f*#k him if given the chance. Last week she told me, they almost met up to have s*x. I told her, once this happens, just keep it to herself. She said sorry but she still keeps on flirting with him. What should i do? with the guy? with my friend? I am so hurt.
2006-11-30 00:10:35 · 9 answers · asked by islandgirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have no one to blame but yourself. Guess you need to find a new crush, and this time be honest with him.
2006-11-30 00:13:08 · answer #1 · answered by BiancaVee 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Awww, I am so sorry to hear that. First things first: You should have taken the guy while you had the chance You know, there really is only one decent thing to do: Move on. Who knows? Maybe you'll find a better one, somewhere. There are plenty of fish in the ocean. Now about your friend, I'm afraid it's kinda difficult, but you have to tell her how you feel. "Friends will always be there for you", and if she isn't, then she's not a true friend. Just a 'companion'. Make her understand that you made a mistake, and you are trying to make up for it. You can also tell your friend to tell the guy about you. You did her a favor by telling the guy about her. Time to pay the debt, I suppose. This may not be much of an advice, but this happened to a friend of mine, and all I can do was be there for him. It worked in the end. He got over it. Good luck....
2016-05-23 04:40:19 · answer #2 · answered by Teresa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not have told him that it was your friend that had a crush on him. Now they are interested in each other. You are just going to have to deal with that. It will just get worse because your friend sounds like a kiss and tell type of girl. Once they have sex she will not be able to resist telling you all about it. I would start looking for a new crush.
2006-11-30 00:21:34 · answer #3 · answered by Shay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your friend really only cares about herself. She's not a true friend, especially if she knew you liked him from the beginning... You need to get rid of the both of them. Shes obviously let things go to her head, because of her being famous, and that is probably the only reason he's with her anyway.. Plus she sounds like a slut... Move on girl!!! Go get you a man who will like you for who you are. Your way better than either one of them... Good Luck!!
2006-11-30 00:18:49 · answer #4 · answered by Indymom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, unfortunately guys are pigs and we don't care about feelings or relationships, we want the girl to treat us like we want to be treated. If you like this guy. Tell him that he makes you happy and you want him for yourself. If I were the guy, I would choose the girl that acts a little slutty and is Really flirty and pays alot of attention to me. I would want the girl that carries herself in a way that really emphasizes her beauty and intelligence. Just be yourself if he can't handle that or that don't get the guy, he's not worth it in the first place. Good Luck.
2006-11-30 00:17:29 · answer #5 · answered by bigdaddy052171@verizon.net 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly what is within your control is whether you would want to be friends with your pal and whether you might want to consider someone else. A crush is just that, a crush.
You're not in a relationship. Be clear with what is it that you want.
2006-11-30 00:13:12 · answer #6 · answered by michael2003c2003 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
set up a video camera and catch it all on film. Then blackmail her *** into stopping the flirting!
Send me the video afterwards.
cereal.
2006-11-30 00:13:33 · answer #7 · answered by cruddypantz 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Your fault..next time be honest and upfront with your feelings.
2006-11-30 00:15:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should tell him that .
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2006-11-30 00:13:32 · answer #9 · answered by dana brown 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋