ok i have a crush on this guy and sooner or later i m gonna ask him...i know if he says "no" i have to keep moving on..but how should i react at his "no"??
2006-11-30 00:03:44 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just say " your loss." That should do it.()
2006-11-30 00:05:06 · answer #1 · answered by Saint 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suck it up and keep it all in stride. Don't take rejections personally. It may seem cold, but look at it this way. You didn't have him then and you don't have him now. What really changed? Keep a positive attitude. You have nothing to lose and a guy to gain. The best that can happen is he says yes. The worst that can happen is you still don't have him and you have to endure a little pain.
2006-11-30 00:10:40 · answer #2 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-08 00:14:05 · answer #3 · answered by minick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he says (which i hope he doesn't) don't hide your feelings, yet keep firm control. maybe you could look down and say "mmm ok i guess you have your reasons" make him see that you are a little sad he said no, but you strong enough to allow him to have his own reasons. he would think "wow she's sad yet so cool for not asking me whyyyyyyyyyy" well all the luck!!!! let me know how it goes, k!?!? and remember theres lotsa wonderful ppl out there.....and one of the is probably YOU!
2006-11-30 00:09:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just say "Ok, thanks anyway" smile and walk away. Dont give him attitude, because that will be extremely embarassing. Just be relaxed and act like it doesnt bug you that much, even if it does.Be mature about it and act like you can handle the rejection, even if you run crying around the corner. Why do you think he would say no?Dont think so little of yourself!
2006-11-30 00:19:00 · answer #5 · answered by Jade22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to keep your cool. accept his decision and move on.
if it's not meant to be, don't worry. there might just be a guy around the corner who likes you as much.
good luck! : )
2006-11-30 00:12:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take his no as a delayed yes
offer him your invitation as an invitation rather than an obligation
he will appreciate the interest in himself and have the freedom to consider you as a companion
2006-11-30 00:07:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him. "Did you take me seriously. I was just joking. I could never be attracted to you. You were never my type." I think he'll start chasing you after that statement.
2006-11-30 00:27:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he does end up saying no,just keep your head up hun,and be strong.
2006-11-30 00:06:25 · answer #9 · answered by bambi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont have to ask him. just talk to him a lot. if he seems interested to see you, ask him, if he looks like he wants to be somewhere else when you approach, thats a BIG HINT.
2006-11-30 00:06:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if you two can still be friends.
and if yes, wait. get him to like you more,\.
dont be to pushy and then he'll come to you.
it always works.
2006-11-30 00:05:30 · answer #11 · answered by Shauna. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋