I am with the perfect guy who is a million times greater than the guys I have had 3-year relationships with. But the problem is that I've only been with him for about 2-3 months.
I am in no rush to commit to anybody because I'm not that sort of person, but I would love to live in London, and so would my boyfriend, and we would love to live together (already!)
Is this is stupid idea?
2006-11-29 23:52:35 · 26 answers · asked by Lola 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Moving in together now is rushing into things!!!! Bt if it won't affect the relationship and you are both serious on moving to London, why not?
2006-11-29 23:54:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Id go for it i was the same wasted my time on someone for over 3years then split met someone new as i lived by myself the new BF moved in after about 2-3 months because basically he was there all the time any way . That was at the begining of this year we later moved house and have now got a mortgage on our own home weve been in it 2months and love it. I think the fact you waste your time on someone else before makes you realise how right someone feels when it is right. Do it what you got to loose at least if you move in and hate it youl have realise your not meant before youve thrown to much time away.
2006-11-30 08:07:40 · answer #2 · answered by dora 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No go for it!! If thats what you feel is right thing to do and thats what you both want then why not give it ago!Me and my boyfriend were only together for 3 months before we moved in together and things are still great 4 years on!
And if it doesnt work out its no big deal,you can always sell the house or stop renting,whatever it is you are planning on doing!!Good luck i hope things work out for you x
2006-11-30 07:59:00 · answer #3 · answered by jo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes....it's too soon to make that level of commitment.....moving in together is a big enough step without the addition of a total relocation....give it some more time...if you still feel the same about each other 6 months from now....then maybe you should move in together...if you decide a year from now that you want to be together always and make a commitment to each other, then consider moving to London...take your time and good luck
2006-11-30 07:58:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A word of warning. If you plan to move to London and live together you need to check out what it is going to cost and where you are going to live. It's a pricey place for sure.
I wouldn't be in a rush just yet. Better to move in together after you've been together for a lot longer.
2006-11-30 08:14:09 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you both think it feels right then yes, but you can really know someone in that short space of time, and to move to an unfamiliar place where you will know no one except him - in my opinion it puts pressure on a very young relationship, why not say if your still together in the summer you'll move to london - you should have a pretty good idea of your feelings by then and you can prepare financially. sugget you open a joint savings account toward it - that'll give you an idea of how good he is at sharing
2006-11-30 07:59:39 · answer #6 · answered by Helen C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah move in together, but take only 2 cases of belongings with you. leave the rest of your stuff at friends houses or parents and make sure you have somewhere else to stay if things dont work out. the reason why only 2 cases is because if you leave you wont have much to cart about.
2006-11-30 08:14:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ths is a bad idea, for the first few months of a relationship you only see the good in them, after 6 months the bad bits start to show, give it more time
2006-11-30 08:01:15 · answer #8 · answered by Jayne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not stupid...you can know someone 10 weeks or 10 years....if its gonna work, its gonna work. Best of luck to you both though, and it really doesnt matter what other people think, there are always people out there who will give u a negative opinion, but its your life, to do with what u want
2006-11-30 07:56:35 · answer #9 · answered by tizzy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is right is right. My mum is getting married next year, but got engaged after one week of dating her old friend that she had not seen for years. Ithink it is too quick as i would not move in with my boyfriend and we have been together for 6mths! but who am i to tell them what makes them happy? you do what feels right if it does not work out then at least you will never say 'what if?' and i think that is far worse. good luck!x
2006-12-02 10:47:18 · answer #10 · answered by m 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋