boyfriend cannot pleasure me in bed - at all.
I know its him but he says there must be something wrong with me lol.
I so badly wanna say its him but cant bring myself to.
What to do?
2006-11-29 23:51:41 · 13 answers · asked by Mel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just tell him that it is him and not you. Or you can try new things with him that might bring you pleasure.
2006-11-29 23:53:36 · answer #1 · answered by redbull_photo 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get yourself a vibrator - that way you can pleasure yourself.
And I agree with Bianca Vee, if you are prepared to live with shitty sex for the rest of your life - stay quiet. If not, scream out load that he needs to get with the program.
A good idea is to buy him a "How to" book for Christmas - he should get the message.
It is VERY unneccessay Hon. He is just selfish and pig headed! My b/f bought books for himself. Not because he's Crap in bed, quite the opposite in fact, but so that he can fly me even higher to the moon! And Oh boy, does he!
2006-11-30 08:03:40 · answer #2 · answered by dragonfly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get help. I'm free FRI night. I'll show him how to do it right!
or you can always buy a toy.
Did your other guys ever get you off?
Maybe it is you. You might just not think about him sexually like you would me.
2006-11-30 08:03:17 · answer #3 · answered by cruddypantz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur boyfriend sux at having sex then tell him that it's not me it's u and if he doesn't get better then i will stop having sex with u. tell him in a gentle voice that i really thinks it's u and if u cant plaese me in bed then i will have to leave u. u have 5 days to practice on me. u get 2 hours ever night.
2006-11-30 07:56:12 · answer #4 · answered by sab08star 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Pleasure yourself off infrount of him. Al least show him how you like to be touched!
2006-11-30 07:53:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
why tell him anything...what good will it do??? If you make him feel badly, that won't get you where you want to be......show him what you want and need to be sexually satisfied...then if he still can't pleasure you ...find another bf.....good luck
2006-11-30 07:54:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If your willing to settle for shitty sex then keep your mouth shut...if not you need to grow up and tell him what to do.
2006-11-30 07:53:19 · answer #7 · answered by BiancaVee 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try other positions, and see if that helps; get on top.
2006-11-30 07:53:24 · answer #8 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i had this prob with my boyf.
i wrote him a note, and we talked about it, well he talked and i wrote, cos i get real shy talking about important things. we got it sorted, he stopped being lazy,
2006-11-30 07:54:56 · answer #9 · answered by blakorkid 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him if he doesn't start pleasing you,then I will(-;
2006-11-30 07:55:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋