All the cute partyer guys I know only seem to be interested in nonpartyer girls and straight edgers who want them to change. I always thought it was stupid to try to make someone change and it'll always backfire.. I still feel that way but am I the only person on this planet who feels that way?
2006-11-29 23:39:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i agree you should be excepting of your significant other for who they are.. and not try and change them.. i mean why would you want to change someone into something they are not..
if they aren't what you want.. then find what you want.. cause if you try and change someone.. they arent going to be happy about it.. and neither will you in the long run
2006-11-29 23:53:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can only change a person if they WANT to be changed. This could be the "partier boys" way of saying they would like to change. A "straight edge girl" maybe what they are looking for, but if someone tries to change them too much, they'll most likely turn away. You can't force a change out of someone who doesn't want it. Another reason these guys change is because they are looking to slow down, or settle down.
2006-11-29 23:46:03 · answer #2 · answered by djkristyleigh 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It probably just because guys hide their insecurities by partying and looking like he can drink a 24 and a half to show theyre tough **** and when a good girl comes along to give him that extra confidence he doesnt feel the need to show people up anymore because his girl is there to make him feel good and worthy. Plus its way less effort. and we all know guys are pretty lazy! haha
2006-11-29 23:50:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not that they want someone to change them, it's that alot of party girls are loose. Guys like their girls to have a good rep. Alot of party girls (not all) don't even know they had sex until they find their panties are inside out, or hanging from some guys rear view mirror. Hope I answered your question.
2006-11-29 23:49:27 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Know 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i'm the worry maker no longer quick yet what i did to make my husband fall in love with me became be spontaneous and loopy continually doing loopy stuff by no ability being to a lot of a woman or whining or complaining and that i gave him fairly some interest and made life exciting for him the placement with some females are they act too reliable to do what adult men do to loiter round drink lots each and every from time to time or be exciting
2016-11-29 23:23:00 · answer #5 · answered by rieck 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Opposites attract and most people like a challenge.
I agree it's a losing battle to try to change someone.
Hope this helps.
2006-11-29 23:42:51 · answer #6 · answered by eyes_of_iceblue 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think that it has something to do with the gut wanting balance in his life. or maybe he is ready to give up that kind of lifestyle, or he could figure that with a "good girl" he can have his cake and eat it too, as they say. like he knows that he can just run over her
2006-11-29 23:44:12 · answer #7 · answered by psychologistnovelist 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋