It was our 1st anniversary yday, and it was awful , it went from bad to worse!! and it ended in a huge argument!!!
Anyway, i have insecurities about his ex, i mean its MY problem because im jealous of his past even though he has no contact with her, or ever sees her and i have never seen her before, but during the argument he told me he dreamt that i met HER and i went to meet him up and i brang her along! and then he told me to F*** off for bringing her along and i was crying!! WTF does this mean!!!
2006-11-29 23:24:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im no dream expert, but they say that your dreams always mean the exact opposite of whats gonna happen in real life.... which will mean ur never gonna meet her!! good hey!!
2006-11-29 23:27:01 · answer #1 · answered by tizzy 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
alright, i think this is being blown out of proportion. I think the meaning behind it might be that he wishes you would just make nice about his ex... and in his dream he symbolized it by you being friends with her. Everyone has a past hun and im sure you do aswell. Just think of what you think about your ex's and he probly feels the same... why do you think they broke up in the first place, most likely cuz there was nothing there anymore. He's with you not her and hes probly just getting annoyed that you care about something so stupid in his eyes because he doesnt care for her anymore and wanted you to be happy and not hold this huge grudge and he showed that by dreaming about it. Dont worry hun, think about all the dreams that youve had that mean zero to you. Good luck.
2006-11-29 23:42:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are giving him to much pressure. In the day u always speak about his ex and show jealousy and sometimes u get angry for no reason. M i right? This problem has made him worry all the time in the day. So in the night he dream about it. Which is good thing actually. This show that he actually wanna find a solution to let you forget his ex. And " he told you to **** off for bringing her along" shows that he actually do not want to meet her anymore in his life.
2006-11-29 23:35:00 · answer #3 · answered by mike 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It means you shouldn't be so worried about his ex... I'm going through the same thing with my Fiance, My Fiance and I have been Dating for 2 month's and were getting married next month, I have an ex girlfriend who i was with for 9 years, yes it is a long time but sh.it hit the fan and she dumped me. all though my Fiance makes me the most happy boy in the world (hence why I'm marrying her and not my ex) I still do think about my ex, Mostly Negative thoughts for what she did to me after we broke up, but you really don't need to worry about this, trust me, its over if you've been dating for a year.
2006-11-29 23:34:45 · answer #4 · answered by Jesus Built My Hotrod 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First you need help with your insecurities since they are ruining your relationships. She's his ex for a reason and it seems like you are doing everything you can to bring them back together. Keep up the good work.
2006-11-29 23:33:27 · answer #5 · answered by lady01love 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It means that he's aware of your insecurities regarding his ex and that he's not the one bringing these issues to your attention.
I know you already know this but these issues are yours and only you can rid yourself of them............if he's not in contact with her, doesn't mention her......why do you feel the need to?
Trust him and stop bringing her into your lives. (As in the dream)
2006-11-29 23:29:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It was a dream....its not real life. He's just using that as a ploy because he knows your insecure about his ex so he brings her up himself which makes you flip out. Guys can be so inconsiderate sometimes.
2006-11-29 23:47:54 · answer #7 · answered by Emily M 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
dreams arent reality. its an old ploy to get an argument to stop, if you bring up his past he'll say something more extreme to upset you.
2006-11-29 23:36:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-30 02:40:42 · answer #9 · answered by Spirita 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell ur BF that u don't even know his BF and that if u do meet wth her u won't even communicate
2006-11-29 23:33:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋