I am 34 years old, I look 24 I'm always being told Im pretty and I'm also really slim (sorry I'm not bragging) but men never talk to me or ask me out. I try to be friendly and polite and I do my best at body language if I like a man without being too obvious but I'm not getting anywhere. My friend who is a lot bigger than me (to be polite) and treats men like dogs gets all the guys!!! What is going on?
2006-11-29 23:13:58 · 9 answers · asked by Michele 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I didn't like the "not bragging" or the " to be polite" parts in your question, but reading your answers, you sound as a very well adjusted person. And smart. I have not idea why you don't get men attention, the way you should. Maybe they think you are way out of their league. But all of them? Anyway, don't change, just be yourself. And have patience, don't give yourself away. And your friend just may be easy, and we love that.
2006-11-29 23:35:05 · answer #1 · answered by elgil 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bless you, I bet your'e really attractive, men find plain girls more approachable.
Here are my tips (as an attractive, older gal)
1) desperation isn't sexy and men can smell it, so go out to see a film, a play, join a club or have a meal. In other words, go out to do something with your pals, not just stand like a piece of meat at the cattle market (pub/bar)
2) Don't chat men up!
3) Chat everyone up! If your'e attractive, but friendly and funny, you'll be much more approachable to men. Even if it means you chat to the chap first, believe me, they never remember it was you that made the first move.
4) RELAX! do you want to be chatted up by a stressmeister? No, thought not,
2006-11-30 07:31:38 · answer #2 · answered by spamela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to be a bit more open. Men tend to be scared and usually, if not sure of the signal, better nothing than get rejected. Your friend is more open and guys find it eaier to talk to her without being intimidated, thereby giving them more "guts' to ask for a date.
2006-11-30 07:20:33 · answer #3 · answered by freaky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, lads are hard to work out. Us guys love confidant girls- fact! Don't get too upset about it, you must be really ptretty though!
Maybe you are just an ickle bit too fussy over your behaviour- try and relax- it will all be fine ;) Best of luck, sister!
2006-11-30 07:19:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you look like an ice princess!
you are too aware of your appeal and men would be too scary to go near you.
too much of body language will kill you act.
get up and act don't care...
or you could act easy and sluthy if you want... it'll get you in every men's bed you known!
oh behave!
2006-11-30 07:20:37 · answer #5 · answered by jeung_gorgeous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just haven't run into the right guy yet. You may also be trying too hard. Just relax, and see what happens.
2006-11-30 07:15:59 · answer #6 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they only respect you as what they see from you. if you are such a prettier, no one will bother you. they only taking care of you. but be vigilant of bad guys.
2006-11-30 07:22:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will get the right man soon
2006-11-30 07:16:49 · answer #8 · answered by B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they feel intimidated....some guys dont bother cos they dont think they have a chance
2006-11-30 07:16:26 · answer #9 · answered by <3 ...sEz... <3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋