ex problems is she is she not?

Question

1 week before we spilt up she told me she was not sure if she in love me i was living with her and her mum her mum told me she keeped telling her she loves me,then next day she was not is she confussed we talked at the end of the week because i wanted to no what was going on and pushed her to far and she said it's over but she wanted me to to give her a hug and kiss before i moved out is she unsure and needs time to think alone or when girls get pushed is that it i went to far when things could off worked out!!!!!!!
she told me i put pressure on her when she was hoping the relationship was worth saving!!!! i feel stupid for pushing her away more but will she change her mind!!!!!!1

Answer 1

It's possible, she may change her mind. You need to give her some time to miss you. In a couple of weeks, maybe you could invite her to lunch, and have a talk. Sounds like she still cares, but perhaps is confused.

Answer 2

Dude, you've been everything that she thought you were and compounded in her mind that you are complicated. That's the last thing anyone wants to deal with when they are trying to consider the pros and cons of a relationship.

I'm sorry to say but I think that you have backed her into a corner and the only way that she saw of getting out was to finish with you. The hug and kiss is, unfortunately, a woman's way of reassuring herself that things were left amicably and that she doesn't need to feel guilty..........girls tend to need to absolve themselves in this way, hence the "can we still be friends?" line.

Answer 3

Give her time.

Answer 4

my suggestion to u is just forget about her . those people who dont care abt u , u also dont need to care abt them

Answer 5

patience

Answer 6

she wants more!
which means you need to have more to offer!

Answer 7

she is a nutjob, you don't need this,find one that doesn't have mental issues.