I am in love with with a girl in my school and later on it turned out that she also loves me?

Question

so the we began kinda going out but then then my father found out when he saw us holding hands together, so when i went home he confronted me and i told him yes i do have a gf and then he slapped the hell out of me and he told me that how can i do such a thing when i am a muslim(since haveing a gf is aginst our religon) so what am i supposed to do should i leave islam in order to be with my gf???the girl who i dearly love

im a 15 yr old kid

julia sure we can talk wats ur yahoo email

Answer 1

So, having a girl friend is against your religion, but hitting someone with a metal pipe is not, are you sure you have that right? If you do, then I can say without hesitation that your religion has it wrong. At least the cultural interpretation that is being presented to you.
If you live in Canada, it is a criminal offence to use corporal punishment against a child over 16 years and under 3 years, and it is always a criminal offence to use any kind of rod or implement or to strike on the face, head or any vulnerable part of the body.

Answer 2

goin' to have Fun and/or Fund,my man ?
Well if you ShOULd,then why not Bro,no hard feeling, but stay on Islam,tho' I won't even think to leave Islam you I have my chance to get married and raising my family,I won't own my own family, maybe I would owe my family on somethim\ng, but stiil I wouldn't had gotten into anythink religious for business kind of talkative either,should that be unnecesitated for anybody. Anyhow, Religious or even reading religion texts could be fantaticaly amusing and entertaining,tho'. You would come to this kind of understanding, only after you had completed readings on any holy books on religion, it could be real fund,tho. yet tere are commands from the Mighty Lord Creator yet to dechiphers. Shall you do that on your own on your quest. Congratulations, Love your girl as she hath loveth you, as anybody wouldn't have that chance in anyways. Sex is sex,love could might've been different,tho. Thats all I couold tells you,anyhow.

Answer 3

bro your story is kinda sad, but I really wish I knew your age. Generally though, it's never a good idea to make rash decisions, so I would really advise you to think carefully before you take any actions. Consider this however, this girlfriend (as a sweetheart as she might be) might not really be worth your family. Your entire being stems from your values and background (instilled in you by your family) therefore your father is one person whom you can solely trust that he has your best interest at heart. Good luck.

Answer 4

Regrettably, Islam has harsh laws that reflect the distant and redundant past. Don't change your religion, just reform it so that it meets the 21st century; get rid of a few out of date and useless "suras" (chapters) and happily live your life.

Answer 5

As much as I would love to tell you to ditch religion and superstition completely, I don't want to be making that choice for you. The best advice I can give is to ask yourself who you love more: Allah, or your girlfriend? When you can say for sure which is more important to you and your future happiness, then you will know what to do.

Answer 6

My friend, I am so sorry for your pain.

Try talking to Jesus as if He were your best friend, and ask Him what you should do. Then wait for Him to tell you.

The peace of the Lord Jesus Christ be upon you and the girl you so dearly love.

Answer 7

Feel free to PM me. I have so many questions of my own for you, and maybe it would be best if we discussed this privately -- if you wish to, of course.
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