I just broke up witha guy and im scared to move on all the friends i had were his friends i dont have a lot of people around as my mother isnt the kindest of people and im scared help me!
2006-11-29 22:10:33 · 6 answers · asked by Chel1525 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't be afraid to move on. You broke up with him for a reason. Don't forget that. If there had been no reason, you wouldn't have broken up with him. Your friends probably see the same things and understand.
As time goes on, (and lonliness drags on) we seem to embellish a little the facts of the relationship and make more than was ever really there to begin with.
Get out of the out of the house. Go to the movies with a friend. Read a good book. Laugh. Get your mind anywhere but dwelling on it.
Good luck!
2006-11-29 22:16:56 · answer #1 · answered by Jade 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me that this guy really let you off the loop, but it's a question that has no definite answer, or at least if the one asking is strong enough to face it.
A failed relationship is never the easiest thing to live with, and the ones you thought as your friends who may now turn against you because you broke up with the guy. It's an unfair rule, considering that some of them may slap you with the bad girl label for hurting the guy even if it's not true.
At this point, it would be best to know where you stand and act accordingly. Try to approach your friend, which I hope you think is a friend, and invite him or her to to talk about it. Breaking up with a bf/gf is nothing like a divorce and you sould not allow being abandoned because of it. I'm sure that there is at least one of them who will stand by your side and offer confort and support.
2006-11-30 06:22:03 · answer #2 · answered by once_a_nerd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to move on no matter what, as you need to find a new chapter in your life. I think it's not a matter of choice, but it's a matter of how . Find a new goal, set a new objective in life. Go and make new friends. Be determined to make your new chapter in life more meaningful, exciting , and fulfilling than before. There's nothing you can't do if you think positively. Look forward to the new things awaiting you . All you need is to take the first step and you will be surprise that things aren't as bad as how you have imagined it to be. Sweetie , be BRAVE !!!
2006-11-30 06:26:46 · answer #3 · answered by Choco 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your relationship with your ex is different from the relationship with your common friends. do not be afraid to move on. i know its better said than done. just take one step at a time. do not rush yourself into another relationship because you feel lonely or you want to make your ex jealous. embrace the new you. it may take some time but im sure you will get over your ex. go out, have some fun, do the things you have been wanting to do on your own. this time no one will stop you from enjoying that moment.
2006-11-30 06:35:40 · answer #4 · answered by z0e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing is try not to be scared. Take time out to think about exactly what you want to do. Maybe take up a new hobby, it's a good way to meet people and you'll probably start to feel better about yourself. good luck x
2006-11-30 06:19:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that the only think you can do is move on
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2006-11-30 06:14:22 · answer #6 · answered by john doe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋