Every guy that i have had has treated me bad and i end up getting hurt and rebuilding my life everytime, tell me how and why do men do this with no remorse?
2006-11-29 21:40:57 · 33 answers · asked by Chel1525 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They are born that way honey!
Ever heard of the saying ...'Treat them mean to keep them keen', well it's soooooo true!
You need to change the way you treat them, love yourself, know they have got a good catch and how lucky they are to have you. Once you know that everything else comes naturally. You'll be training your man to buy you everything you want and do everything that you want and you'll make him think it was his idea.
Don't ever compliment a man to much, this can make them think above there station and they start to think they are somehow important
Good Luck
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2006-11-29 21:45:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
1. Cause a lot of girls choose bad(Men of course too).
Love makes blind. Better to make the right choice as long you can see.
Its absolutely suprising how unskilful in choosing the right fellow certain girls or men are. They choose superficial. A good choice often isnt the choice which seems to be. Its unbelievable. Some girls prefere guys simulating than telling the truth which hurts but helps developing or learning from faults.
2. Cause other people generally treat others bad if they let them do this. The one you dont have to set limits is Mr Right.
2006-11-29 21:52:49 · answer #2 · answered by happy_blabla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I promise you, it's only a select few fools that you have had the misfortune to be connected with. Change your hunting grounds as I suspect you may be onto the scent of spoiled meat.
The fact that you rebuild you life each time is a good sign and my suggestion is that maybe you don't need a man right now at all. Why not try it alone for awhile? Let your own confidence and decent life attract the right man to you.
You're gonna be OK, baby.
2006-11-29 22:27:52 · answer #3 · answered by outdone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ever heard that nice guys finish last? Its because girls such as yourself go for guys that hit on them for sexual gratification and then split. Go for the shy guy in the corner, a guy that you like and that you can tell likes you. Here is the shocker, you might have to put some work into getting him, because he's not out just to get some from you. If you found a guy you like, and not one that is a smooth talker that throws out generic compliments, you might find a diamond in the rough per se. So to answer your question, guys arent such assholes, just the players that you attracted to are.
2006-11-29 21:45:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you have to question your own criteria in selecting men. I think you are attracted to the wrong guys. Life is a pure hell too, if a man gets hooked up with the wrong kind of woman. That's why women on average live some 7 years longer than men.
2006-11-29 21:44:13 · answer #5 · answered by seek_fulfill 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men can be *******, but if there's a bad pattern where if all of those you are with are *******, you have to look at yourself. Ask yourself why you are with these guys, and you'll find the type of person who's really meant for you.
2006-11-29 21:47:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um maybe you need to look in the mirror and girlfriend and see that your attracted to the wrong type of guys, if there's a pattern developing, it probably means your choosing the same type of blokes and that's the thing if you choose the same type, it'll always inevitably end up the same way. so maybe analyze your criterions and refine it, see if that changes it. But with all breaks everyone hurts as we gamble with everything for eternal happiness and that's the risk we take.
2006-11-29 21:45:13 · answer #7 · answered by curlyhurlymo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-13 17:14:36 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry about that, some guys are just like that. They like the thrill and have no compassion. And quite frankly, if you continue with them, youre encouraging them.
Just take these as life lessons, hope your luck picks up soon.
2006-11-29 21:44:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know they're mean. Mine basically told me tonight that I was a gross pig. Yet he constantly badgers and pesters me for sex. I'm usually pretty thick-skinned but his comment made me cry a little bit. F**k them. Just concentrate on your self-confidence, build your self-esteem and rely on your friends and family. Above all love yourself and be self-reliant. Most of these men just want to stick their **** in you and get off anyway.
2006-11-29 21:54:55 · answer #10 · answered by DawnDavenport 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋