I like this girl. The thing is, im not sure whether she likes me. I sometimes see her, but she keeps avoiding me. Eg one time i saw her in the library, but then she ran away! She didn't even say hi or anything. The thing is, we work at the same place. So when we work together, she is all cool with me, i.e. joking, chatting and flirting. Even customers would look at us two funny because they thought we were a couple. But then recently, she just doesn't even say hi to me or anything, avoiding me, or when she does say hi, its very distant and cold in a sense. Not friendly or warm. Its very odd, Im confused to how she sees me. How can someone be so different? Any ideas? I get along well with her friends and everything, so that isn't the problem. Maybe she feels or senses something is up? Any help would be appreciated.
Btw, she is 23, Im 18. Age may be a factor, but im not sure.
2006-11-29 21:31:22 · 3 answers · asked by tao_gettos 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Surely she has something in her mind which is why she is avoiding you.On going through your narration It seems to me that you have some inclination towards her but she has not.You say people think you are a couple that also affected her too.She is just your friend and nothing more than that.However your behavior gave her Hint that you have something in mind which is why she is not in co-operation with you to show you that " we are just friends and nothing more than that " Hope you get my point.
2006-11-29 21:44:43 · answer #1 · answered by shri 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, it could be that she wants to keep the work separate from pleasure. Did you even think about that? Some people are like that. If your really interested in her, ask her when she is at the office when she is talking to ya. Just be up front about it but be nice. Just let her know that you are confused about your relationship between ya's. And want to know if you could date her.
I don't believe the age has anything to do with it. But some people think that age matters. So, the only thing I can tell ya is be up front with her at the office and find out how she really feels. Or you'll be in question all the time.
2006-11-30 05:52:39 · answer #2 · answered by Deb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you read to much into it and she noticed and cut you off at the feet. its happened to the best of us lol
2006-11-30 05:36:16 · answer #3 · answered by happylilsmigger02 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋