i was a very simple girl before. i never thought abt any boy. but on my 1st helloween in canada i went to see the house of horror. there were so many fake dead bodies made me so scared.we were five girls and i was in the middle. i saw there was a boy who was pretending as a walking dead body.he had the fake blood on his face.he was just looking at me and coming to my side.my friends ran away.but i got stuck in a corner.i closed my eyes and started screaming loudly.i opened my eyes when i felt that somebody was kissing to me.that was the same boy.he felt sorry and said that he had no way to stop me.after coming home i was still feeling that. now my life had changed.i changed my look and thinking.now i'm not shy from boys.i changed myself to look hot.i started to feel that i'm very sexy and nobody is able to get marry with me.my parents found some good families for me but rejected them b'coz of my thinking that thay r not able to me. so give me suggetion that wht to do?
2006-11-29 21:27:40 · 9 answers · asked by mahak m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi Mahak,
I had to read your question twice to understand your actual need. Please frame your next question more clearly. Thanks...
First of all forgive yourself for the mistakes which you feel you did after the incident... you said, you decided to be 'hot' and started paying attention to yourself... your looks, figure etc. That can't be called a mistake... perhaps what you did AFTER becoming 'hot' must be bothering you.
Let me tell you something... that guy helped you to explore a hidden area of your personality which you were not aware of. He did a mistake by kissing you but it was a boon in disguise. You experienced the feeling of being a woman for the first time in your life. There is a saying in India that once a tiger tastes human blood it becomes a man eater. Till that time it does'nt consider human beings as its prey. Since you were 'untouched' till that time there is a great chance of passion taking control of your mind.
Now, it's time to think on your feet. Enough is enough. You can either choose to live the same life (can I use the word 'flirt') or listen to your parents. Getting married is not compulsory but you can at least take control of your own mind. Once it is under control, decision making will be easy.
2006-12-01 05:20:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a age when all girls are too cautious about themselves and many of them feel the way you do. So first of all you shred off the feeling of guilt if you have any. If you are not involved with any good suitable boy, you should go ahead with your parent's decision. I might be sounding very conservative but believe me no parent on this earth would get a bad proposal for his/her child. I wish you all the best.
2006-11-30 06:28:08 · answer #2 · answered by anand s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there,
What seems to be the problem here? Nothing... u were just kissed by someone and its ok.... No as you say you are a more confident person and u feel and look good. That is good for you. Just by remembering that you had kissed someone you cannot reject proposals. In case you like someone say yes and go ahead.
Good Luck
2006-11-30 05:52:31 · answer #3 · answered by Blueberry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well depends on your age...May also depend on your religion..why do young girls/women think they have to look hot..It would be wonderful if they would realize they are beautiful without trying so hard..A good guy will see the beauty within you no matter what you wear...There is good attention from guys and bad attention..You always want good attention...Dressing hot will lead guys to think you will do anything for them and that is not the way it should be...A good guy wants a girl he can trust just like a girl wants a guy she can trust...dont dress hot hun,,,jeans and tshirt is beautiful for it is the heart that really attracts a good guy....God bless you
2006-11-30 05:33:47 · answer #4 · answered by glowworm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
On first impression it seems a baked story, but if its real i think after the episode u r inner beauty glooms u started loving u r self on high esteem, be practicle in life think normal & +ev....
2006-11-30 06:04:56 · answer #5 · answered by meghoney 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not a bad girl just by thinking about sex, you go for arrange maraige it's the best thing in the world.
2006-11-30 05:34:46 · answer #6 · answered by Krishna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i'm sure you are beautiful 'n hot juz like you believe baby.. but being arrogant is not a good way.. be confident not mean be arrogant... if you can be more friendly, i'm sure you will more beautiful then present... i believe basicly you are a friendly girl..
2006-11-30 05:47:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you need to go for an english class...n learn to write.
2006-11-30 16:19:47 · answer #8 · answered by Spacetod 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old r u? 15??????????
2006-12-02 13:24:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋