i hae had many g/f's ,at one point i used to have two diff g/f's a week,i allways find them, feed them and f..k them,then forget them, i never get into anything that involves emotion with my g/f's,i just use them for my pleasure, so am i hearltess?
2006-11-29 21:27:13 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you sure are, i wish i was a stud like you,
2006-12-01 00:12:01 · answer #1 · answered by mr.truth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear news, well, well, I know you are not heartless but may be a little weak and afraid to love and commitment. So, in order to cover your weakness you decided to be nonchalant in your attitude towards women. This attitude of yours could be seen as being heartless and could have arosed as a result of past hurt done to you or to a loved one. It could have registered inside you at a tender age so, you probably vow that no one (woman) could get you down on your knees again. In a nut shall, i think something is wrong somewhere and if you look deep down inside you, you will know it's true.
However, for you to ask the world this august question, to my mind means that you are getting tired of the whole thing. There is really more to life and love making (even if you called it fornication) that meets the eyes. Am glad you did not call what you shared with these women love because it isn't. Thus, I urge you to mend your ways in other to find more fulfilment to life.
Having many girlfriends (they do not qualify for that: as you only use them for a while and forget them) without any emotion attached is not an achievement. Please try not to be afraid of being hurt and add a little emotion to your pleasure to see where you go from there. It is really beautiful to love someone and be love in return. If you love and your love is not returned?? just know that you are not to be blamed and the person you loved could be the wrong one. If that is the case, all you need do is to love someone else.
So, lay down your guard and see it isn't bad after all. Good luck to you as you dare to make a change. Cheers!!!
2006-11-29 22:11:00 · answer #2 · answered by Lovely 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not heartless but rather you are not making good use of your heart. If you want to make the best use of your heart always have a clear concent on whatever you do/ say especially if it has an influence on other people's feelings. This means that as human beings we are not worthy unless we can use our minds.
My word to you... always use your mind, i mean your brain and give a second thought to whatever you want to engage your self in. BE CONSIDERATE!!
2006-11-29 21:46:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi i wouldn't say your heartless your just having a bit of fun at the moment. Can i please ask have been hurt by a girl before so are now scared to commit or show any true feelings towards any of your g/f's.
You find that one special girl that will turn you around and make you see that its OK to show emotions. Until then enjoy yourself but be safe when having all this fun :)
2006-11-29 21:34:40 · answer #4 · answered by Linda D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not at all, as long as your honest with the person that your with and they know that its not going anywhere then thats fine. There is no point in makign yourself be with someone when you are happy living the way that you do. As long as your happy and your not purposely hurting someone in the process then you get a thmbs up from me! People call guys like you when really, the girls jump into bed aswell! good luckxxxx
2006-11-29 21:30:46 · answer #5 · answered by SARA H 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would need more information. What are you telling them? Are you are up-front that you see a lot of other women and that you are having a one-nighter just so that you will both feel good for a while? Or are you making them promises that you don't follow through on?
2006-11-29 21:31:50 · answer #6 · answered by clueless_nerd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have done the same thing.....I just told the guy what I wanted from them and that there was nothing else they could offer me that I would want.
If you are honest then I don't see any problems with that.
But if you were making plans and promises to these girls then, yes, you are a very very very bad man!
2006-11-29 21:31:12 · answer #7 · answered by Liggy Lee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you sound like your just really selfish......You'll end up with married to a woman who has done exactly the same in her past, you'll fall in love with her and hate the fact that many many many men have been there before you.....
What goes around comes around mate and your instant gratification now, will later cost you.
2006-11-29 21:33:06 · answer #8 · answered by jessieket04 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How do you not know that you may have just been USED for pleasure also, what goes around come around.
We can all be heartless at times. Just mind you dont go getting yourself an std
2006-11-29 21:30:13 · answer #9 · answered by KnOwLeDgE_iS_PoWeR 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes
2006-11-29 21:29:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you don't care and you don't use your heart so in that way you are heartless. Loads of people do what you are doing, just take their feelings into consideration, if you hurt a lot of women then you are over-heartless.
2006-11-29 21:42:13 · answer #11 · answered by Aaron 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋