I like this girl VERY much?

Question

Right now we are ok friends
When she see me she wave at me, she talk to me about her family arugements- she see me as someone who can trust.
But i really like here and been hiding that fact for over a year.
Now i want to tell her that.
Everytime i see her hurt. i want to be there and protect her with every possbility... when i see her i think i am looking into a goddess...
But everytime, fear prevents me to. tell her i really like her and wanna to be more than just friends... and i end up saying something dumb like "do we have HW for..." etc

So my question is... should i let our friendship deepen 1st then make a move or should i do it right now?
If i should... what can i do (i wrote this poem already but people said i shouldnt send it...)?
It is almost xmas... i want to give her something to remember me by...

...What do girls like? I want to ask her out for something...

Answer 1

It's a tough question, but I'll try answering it.

Being a non-gay male friend can be, at one point, a good experience since she confides in you the way a sister can trust her brother to keep secrets or even ask for advice on something (at least some siblings). There's probably this inner voice in your head (think of the Family Guy and his good conscience stuck in traffic) that tells you that to take the next step is to ruin that friendship, more so if she's a childhood friend. But it's torture, right, to be there and to hold her without any sense of intimacy but as a supportive friend. You don't need to be needy as well, but be the man who she can lean onto.

Talk about being stuck between a rock and a hard place.

I guess the best way to get her heart is to be subtle yet straight about your approach. If she has problems, well you can help but in a way she has to figure it out for herself then take her out to have fun. It may seem like you're not helping, but the real truth is that you're helping her by distracting her by taking other's problems with her own. It's not like you're being an uncaring friend, but show her that you feel her pain because she is feeling it and one of these days you would take part of that pain away from her.

And for a gift, give her something that really means something to you. Girls would like those and not your DVD collection of action movies or the like, but something even more personal.

Hope it works!

Answer 2

I would like to say first deepen your friendship relation, by this she will automatically take interest in you and then wait for the right moment and keep your propose in front of her...

Best of Luck

Answer 3

let the friendship deepen babe. ok otherwise it could scare her away but dont let it go for like four years. i lost a bff because he was an a hole when i told him that i wanted to be more than friends

Answer 4

go ahead