All the other mothers on our estate have got at least one brown baby and i feel excluded, I have 4 kids and I know who the fathers of all of them are, my friends think I'm weird, I'm the talk of the chip shop apparently. Should I just throw caution to the wind and have a one night stand with one of my black friends and get pregnant? My mate Tracy says I can borrow her bloke for a night if i want, her kids are gorgeous, Please help....
2006-11-29 21:16:33 · 46 answers · asked by ♥Tallulah♥ 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
I don't get these other answers. It is as important as a dancin clown pendant and a 22 year old nicked xr3i to have a braaaahhhn baybee.
At least you've waited until your 5th until you are sure the social can get you a 5 bed detatched house built on a flood plain and you'll have enough income support or job seekers allowance (hahahahaha!) to be able to get them the best mini nike trainers and their ears pierced right away.
2006-11-29 21:30:12 · answer #1 · answered by Lord of the Sovereign Ring 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Its not about what other people have, if everyone on your estate had a purple baby with glitter, would you want one too? Dont just want something because every one else has one, Be your own person, imagine if your daughter / son came home and said the same thing to you? I am sure you would use your mother instincts and put them in their place, it aint about race or fitting in, its about being with some one you love then starting a family no matter what race they are! Please think long and hard about what you have just posted!
2006-11-30 00:46:11 · answer #2 · answered by jodie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have mixed daughter. Her father is black and I am a blond. My daughter is just as white as I am. She has blond curly hair. Just because some peoples children are black or brown or whatever nationality-and have brown skin-doesn't mean yours will. There are no guarantees on how a child will look. And my daughter's father is VERY dark. I have friends with 1/4 black children darker than my daughter. As for falling in step with everyone else-I'll leave that one alone since most people already touched on that.
2006-11-29 23:32:48 · answer #3 · answered by blueeyes19806 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not just paint one of your kids with black?
You shouldn't get a child just because you want an accessory. A "brown baby" still needs all the attention and love every other could would, and having a new child is a big investment. Having a pretty baby won't matter if you're racked up with work caring for him/her.
2006-11-29 23:02:25 · answer #4 · answered by roxusan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have four children with more than one father it would seem you fit in pretty well with those other mothers and don't need to feel excluded.
With all due respect, it sounds like you have already thrown caution to the wind.
There's something icky about the fact that you felt the need to bring up the color of the other mothers' babies on here.
2006-11-29 21:43:21 · answer #5 · answered by WhiteLilac1 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You ok? You better throw away whatever you're smoking. Not because you want to have a baby with someone from another race, thats fine. But why have five children just for the heck of it and because other people do it. And to sleep with a friend's boyfriend?.Can you support all these children? Think about what's going to happen when that child goes to school.
2006-11-29 21:32:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should never "throw caution to the wind" when it comes to bringing a new life into this world. It is the biggest responsibility you will ever have and that child deserves the best you can give. It's not a fad or a fashion statement.
2006-11-29 21:19:16 · answer #7 · answered by WonderWoman 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why on earth would you want a child from a one night stand and why would you want a child just for the colour of it's skin. if you have 4 white children already than the other child would want to know where its come from and why your not with the father children are not a fashion statement it sounds like the people that talk about you just have their children for that reason.
2006-11-30 04:31:05 · answer #8 · answered by lara s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up woman!
A child should be about love not colour,
I'm black and if ever you were my mother I would be ashamed.
Don't follow the trend be proud that you haven't.
Theres these stupid women/ girls out there that want a mixed raced child as a souvenir but look in the newspaper most of these kids are up for adoption.
Don't let you're child's hate you that she doesn't know her father and the rest of your kids do....
2006-11-30 00:42:35 · answer #9 · answered by goldenchx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you just pay for a couple of your kids to go to a tanning salon and make them brown. You can get some bone rollers, and put a tight curly perm in their hair, dye it light brown with highlights...and you have instantly created two half breed looking kids. It is probably cheaper than having another kid with no father. Who will be paying for the living expenses of this kid...with no father?? You...or society??
2006-11-30 15:16:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋