Eight months ago, my boyfrined and I had an arguement over a football match. His dad is a proper football fanatic and he said his son couldn't be with a girl that didn't like football. He hasn't spoke to me since. We were together for just over two months but he made me so happy in our time together. He is afraid of his dad and doesn't ant to go against him but I can't get him out of my head. What can I do?
2006-11-29 20:55:05 · 13 answers · asked by loo loo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask yourself - do you really want be with such a wimp of a man?? Someone who is so shallow that he'd give up his girlfriend because his dad said he can't date you??? And what sort of a father makes a guy choose between his girl and a love of football ?? Sounds like a disfunctional family to me and you are so much better than that - don't pine for him love, feel sorry for him !!!!!!!!!!!!! Be lucky xx
2006-11-29 20:59:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What kind of father is this?
On the whole, girls don't like football. Some don't have anything to do with it and other's tolerate it for the sake of their boyfriends.
Whether or not a girl likes football should not exclude her from being your ex's girlfriend.
You are really better off without your ex. I really try not to say this too often, but the reality of this is that your ex will do everything his father says. If his father accepts you because you pretend to like football, there is likely to be another rule that this father tells his son. It may be: "My son should not have a girlfriend who wears pink or black".
The problem here is not the rule that your ex's father has laid down, but the reaction to this rule by your ex. No matter how ridiculous the rule, your ex will comply with it. It is this type of simple minded, unable to think for himself attitude to life which leads me to tell you that you are better off without your ex.
What do you want.. a man or a mouse?! I know it is going to be hard but don't contact your ex. You will find someone else to have happy times with and this new guy's family will love you for who you are!
2006-11-29 21:12:36 · answer #2 · answered by Just me 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if this guy ditches you under the instruction of his dad over something as stupid as you not liking football, do you really think he is gonna be a good boyfriend? he may have made you happy, but two months?!?! My advice is go out and find a real man that doesn't do what daddy says he should do especially over trivial sh*t like that find someone with a backbone.
2006-11-29 21:02:55 · answer #3 · answered by crownose 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should leave this fella go. He picked football over you? Can he not like you and football? His dad sounds like trouble and i say good luck to him finding a girl who is seriously interested in football.
2006-11-29 21:01:45 · answer #4 · answered by kit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
loo loo.... some people come into our lives for a short time and make us really happy... put the memory of your great 2 months together in the happy times box in your head and move on. you are more important than football.... don't change who you..... one day you will meet the person that values you and you will be even happier.
2006-11-29 21:11:09 · answer #5 · answered by please answer 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Learn a little about football. What's so hard about that? The worst thing that might happen is "you learn something new". It's not like thay're asking you to commit a crime or denounce your family. It's just football and who know, once you get into it, you might actually like it.
2006-11-29 21:03:42 · answer #6 · answered by zaitsev_v1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look I'm all for respecting elders, parents included.
But this guy has no testicles, letting dad speak for him,.
Do you really want this guy, he's obviously not a real man, and to top that off dad'll be on your case too?
Go look for someone else. Save yourself the trouble.
2006-11-29 21:02:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your need to forget about him and move on, you were arguing about his dad saying he couldnt be with a girl who doesnt like football. wtf!! That should not of even been an issue, you should of told him to get a backbone and stand up to his dad.
In the meantime you'll find someone else who wont be so pathetic.
2006-11-29 21:00:54 · answer #8 · answered by KnOwLeDgE_iS_PoWeR 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you are not going to let his father ruin what you both have.
Tell him you don't like football but a lot of women don't and it doesn't bother you.
Tell him you don't care what his father thinks and he shouldn't either.
And tell him that you won't allow his father to decide your future together.
2006-11-29 21:12:52 · answer #9 · answered by specs appeal 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have to like football. is he worth it if yes then you have start to like the game
2006-11-29 20:58:28 · answer #10 · answered by Albertus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋