I have been looking for a girlfriend for quite sometime now and am still single! on my hunt for mrs perfect i have met some really nice girls along the way! I keep seeing the ones that I have fun with knowing it will never amount to anything! will one of these girls turn into mrs right or should i just cut them all loose and keep looking?
2006-11-29 20:41:48 · 17 answers · asked by Nigi-magic 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey Happy Talkings thats harsh! I'm far from perfect but, i'm not just going to settle!
2006-11-29 20:59:32 · update #1
Hahaha, your question is excellent, and I love your phrasing. I would say that as long as your happy in those relationships then why leave? It is very unusual to fall for girls overnight! You need to let the relationship grow and develop before you can decide whether to commit yourself fully to that person. In my experience then you could be ending the perfect relationship because of these fears. Take your time, enjoy yourself and above all be patient! xxx
2006-11-29 20:45:42 · answer #1 · answered by SARA H 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It overwhelms me to see how many people are seeking so hard to find that right person when they should be enjoying life...When you least expect it is when you will find her..Is like when you lay something down at home,,you go to get it but cant remember where you put it...You search and search till it almost drives you crazy..So you give up..You go about doin other things around the home and before you know it,,there it is,,right in front of you...the item you were lookin for..I have found when you stop searching and just live your life day to day doin the best you can, then when you least expect it,,she will be right in front of you and when you see her,,you will know deep in your soul that is the one God created for you....Be patient like you have been..slow down and enjoy life..One day at a time...Try it,,you will see...God bless you along life's journey..
2006-11-29 20:49:46 · answer #2 · answered by glowworm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heh, I've always felt the same dating guys, like thinking shall I settle, I could get worse....
I didn't though.
You will fall in love with the Heart and Soul of a person, sure being physically attractive helps but you need to find someone who can "connect" with not just have fun.
When I met my previous boyfriend we connected as if he knew me inside out already, we have the same problems,arguments and frustrations as anyone else but we share something more special that can't be passed to anyone else. For me it was like a jigsaw just fitting into place..........I've put the kiss of death on it now and I'm going to get dumped when I get home!!!!
Good luck.
2006-11-29 21:41:18 · answer #3 · answered by jessieket04 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember all us females are human too, so dont under estimate us. I think you will know after being in her company for a while. I think when you stop thinking of just getting action from her and think that youd like a future with her, maybe marriage, a house and possibly a family, then you have found her. Good luck searching!
2006-11-29 20:46:42 · answer #4 · answered by Need_to_know 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont believe in love at first sight (although i suppose it works for some people). When i first went out with my boyfriend i couldnt see myself ever loving him and we split up after a few months but stayed friends (mainly due to his persistence). Over time i realised i had grown to love him and we got back together and now we've been together for over a year and are still going strong.
2006-11-29 20:50:14 · answer #5 · answered by kit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be so picky, yes there is someone for everyone but they don't come wrapped with a bow. You can't know for sure (unless you are deliberate) That things wont amount to much. Take your time with each person, don't expect them to do all the running to prove themselves to you, they too need the same thing you do.
2006-11-29 20:50:45 · answer #6 · answered by Powerpuffgeezer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are looking for a kind of perfection that maybe just doesn't exist. Are you perfect? I'll bet those girls you 'have fun with' don't think so! Listen Mr Arrogant, get off your high horse and stop thinking you're so superior. Even that goddess you're waiting for will have ***************that **************s
2006-11-29 20:55:23 · answer #7 · answered by Peace 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
from ur saying...
you are not ready for the mrs right, how do u think mrs right will come to you in reality.
you have to prepare then she will come herself.
2006-11-29 21:18:12 · answer #8 · answered by Aii29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cut them loose and your true love will find you when you stop looking for her
2006-11-29 20:50:02 · answer #9 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fro what you say - you can't handle love, not right now. You need to know what it is for starters.
2006-11-29 21:03:14 · answer #10 · answered by Bootilicious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋