feeling very low abt a friendship that has been lost .its off for good . how do i feel back to normal?

Answer 1

If he / she was one of your best friends, I recommend you get along with him / her after sometime. The feeling is awesome when you get along with a lost friendship. I had this scenario 2-3 times and I know they were best times

Answer 2

Dude i have the exact same situation i mean down to the tee. Ive liked her for a long time now like 10 months and i did date another girl over this time but anyway the became really, really good friends with her then her and the boyfriend of a year and a half broke up because he was messing around with other girls so he broke it off then after this i told her i liked her and she was totally cool as cool as anyone could be and changed nothing about our friendship and she told me i am someone she would date but her and the boyfriend got back together and i got really clingy and tried to like be with her all the time and she never changed the way she acted to me as a friend but then i felt really bad and backed off and then our friendship kinda split but ive been trying to hang out with hert more now but just has friends and going to find someone else to date or wait it out for the girl i like.

Answer 3

i am not trying to blame you but i think you should learn a lot from this experiance.if the friendship is broken by the other person,instead of trying to forget,see what was that made the person come to this decision.more important to forget about this friendship is the cause of the breakup.that would help you to get into new friendship without the same incident repeating again.

if you find that out it would give you some answer and you will feel relaxed.then forgeting bout it would be easier.

Answer 4

It's hard to lose anything in this life,but a friendship is a great loss because they usually take so much time to create and build,human beings even as isolated as we've become really need one another in this way.

It also depends on how much they meant to you,if you were really close it may take awhile to sever that bond.If you have a vacuum in your life (no one you feel close to), the memories will be harder and the sense of absence stronger.

So my advice is to fill that space/vacum they left as soon as possible with some other person/activity/passion/amusement/anything.

Answer 5

my friend it is not going to be easy to forget the friendship like that more especially when you guys shared almost everything! i suggest you accept the changes and start making peace with the situation. i once felt the same pain but comforted myself that mabye it was not meant to be! just hang in there my friend and i am really sorry about what happened, i cant do anything but can atleast wish youa speedy recovery over the matter. stay blessed

Answer 6

you obviously know that it's off for good........so go ahead join social groups clubs or go out in the evening with a mission to meet new people and make another special friend...or take time off and undertake a self improvising activity.......you will feel good that you are becoming a better person or if you are already one just take time off and rediscover yourself.........enjoy this time that you have got with yourself to do stuff that you could never do or had put off for later..........the only way to escape depression is to keep yourself busy.......this will give you little or no time to sulk.......all the best

Answer 7

Keep your chin up. Have you talked to your friend.... People really do move on with their lives so maybe that friendship wasn't meant to be...I sort of figure it is a good way to find out your true friends.

Answer 8

I know how you REALLY feel. I have REALLY deleted all my past friends because they all treated me nasty and in the wrong way. I can never forgive them for what they did to me and really messed me up.

Now i just do what i only like to do. But if i have to do something i am going to have to do that unfortunatly: even tho it REALLY does make me feel REALLY sick.

Love Amie A

Answer 9

it's not gonna be easy and it's gonna take time, but eventally it gets to where u can think back on it and smile then ur gonna fell a slight sence of emptiness, but nothing u can't handle. keep ur head up.

Answer 10

enjoy life. .there is still a lot of people out there who would want to be friend with you.hey dont cling to the past my friend and take it easy.. just relax and cheer up.