Last night I had sex with this guy who I see pretty often and party with. Last night I was incredibly horny and I could not stop fantasizing about him and he came to my apartment and we had sex. It was really good and I know he thought so as well but my problem is still want to have sex with him but he has a girlfriend. Their relationship isn't the most stable and they have both cheated on each other before so I do feel too bad but I think he feels guilty as hell because he's a very nervous/paranoid person and I was just wondering how long I should give him to recover before I seduce him again? I know he's all freaked out about cheating on his girl and I actually gave him head once along time ago so I know how he gets but the sex was so good last night I want to do it again. Soon. So how long do you think I should give him to cool down so we can **** again. By the way I am in no way interested in him romatically.
2006-11-29 20:37:41 · 20 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey garfields.....i love it when you talk dirty
2006-11-29 20:42:14 · update #1
I do think about his girl but think that he is in his 20's and has only had sex with 2 other girls and if he plans on marrying her, I think he should have more sexual partners bc I know he likes sex and it is a huge thrill to me to pleasure him in ways I know his gf never would.
2006-11-29 20:44:33 · update #2
Fair enough... "Just Shag him"!
2006-11-29 20:40:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you probably won't have to wait long. if it was me, i would appreciate you coming to me and letting me know how you feel. although, i am not one to cheat, neither am i one to sit around in a relationship that's going to end either. i would leave her and live a happy single life and having an "activity" partner will make it all better. especially someone that's easy to get along with.
in your case, make sure this guy is as cool as me. lol. you said he's nervous and paranoid. that's far from me lol. his situation may be different as well. i currently dont have any stresses or frustrations to really worry about. also, i don't easily get attached. make sure he's not that kind of guy either. because everything may go right with him and then it gets messed up because he mistakes friendly affection and sex as love. make sure he understands that you aren't interested in furthering your relationship beyond friendship and sex.
other than that, all you need to do is put "it" on a silver plate and serve it to him. he's obviously ok with some play as you've done it before with the BJ. i don't see why he wouldn't take it all the way again, without the drinking.
my only rule in these situations is honesty. if both of you are honest with each other, you will have a long time sex partner and friend.
2006-11-29 20:51:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anthony Taurus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, be honest you don't feel sorry for him or his girlfriend because you are willing to repeat the behavior that made him feel bad.
It seems he fills a physical need for you without the emotional attachment (he has a girlfriend). If you cared even a little bit about this guy you would not have sex with him again, but you only seem to care about yourself.
He is a boy toy to you - nothing more or less.
2006-11-30 01:17:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont seduce him.. If he comes to you to cheat.. and you have no problem with it fine. If your seducing him, your the person whos doing something wrong, sorry but its true. He should feel guilty as hell, he is sleeping around. You know her, and know for a fact shes sleeping around? He knows it too? Why is he in that relationship..?
Just tellem you wouldnt mind it again..and often. And tellem you think he should be single becuase you dont want to get involved in his romantic life (or ruin his relationship).. and as a friend..that he isnt as fun to hang out with when he is freaked out.. that maybe he should change what hes freaked about. (for better or worse)
and no.. dont seduce him. for your own good, id really suggest dont be his wayout, it will lead to something in his mind, in my opinion.
deal with it, drop it, or change it...
there are plenty of less drama good lays, why waste your time?
If you can and dont mind dealing with all the drama.. and could careless about what people think... how long? when you want it again...
Infact.. just show him this page.. youll see imediate results.
2006-11-30 01:00:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now I know I might go to HELL for saying this, But if he is knocking dem boots that good and you know he's cheating "Get his a** right back in the saddle and put it on him again. If he was happy at home he wouldn't be at your place getting satisfied. But be careful, You may not be the only one he's dipping in. Aint nothing like some bomb sex. Not many put in the effort to give it to you the way you tell them you like it. Thats this guys veiw...
2006-11-29 20:47:42 · answer #5 · answered by egreen3rd 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOu have to really think about his needs and what he plans on doing with his relationship...Ok he slept you.. Its no big deal to you. For him to be nervous and paranoid means he cares about the feeling of the one he's with.. Whether the sex was good or not you have to respect him. And control your urges to jump his bones. Let him find out what he wants to do. If he decides to give in to you. I hope his girl never finds out. If she does there will be a confrontation...
2006-11-29 20:44:50 · answer #6 · answered by Cece 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-29 23:20:50 · answer #7 · answered by rieck 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly....if you see no future for romance, I would have to say, 'find someone else' for pleasure. If his conscience is bothering him that bad, he'll never be happy. He will end up with a nervous breakdown. I think the best thing to do would be to come clean. All three of you sit down and talk about it. That way you'll know how she feels about all of this. If she leaves him.........he's all yours. If she doesnt.......step out of the way.
2006-11-29 21:02:05 · answer #8 · answered by Mark C 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I hope the gf finds out and kicks fu*k out of you, I know I would. Its women like you who give women the bad name and make women not act like friends but enemies when it comes to men. Maybe they arent suited and should have other sexual partners, but you shagging her man isnt going to help!!! There are plenty of men out there who dont have partners and are a good f*ck.
get a grip of your own man not someone elses
2006-11-29 20:59:54 · answer #9 · answered by carrienicholson23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
l think you should forget about him if you are not interested in him romanticly. find a guy you really Love then have a romantic relationship. let him work thing's out with his girlfriend or find a true Love for himself.
2006-11-29 20:45:16 · answer #10 · answered by catsclaw 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok it looks like you just want him as sex partner with no strings attached.so I think you should tell him that and she what happens. But what he is doing to his girl is wrong.
2006-11-29 20:45:12 · answer #11 · answered by Albertus 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋