i have been in a relationship for quit some time now (2 years) and i am only 16. when i see my friends going off and enjoying themselves, i cant do that because i am either with my boyfriend or he is with me. and lately when we are having a fight he always brings up my x-boyfriends. and now a lad that i was with before is back texting me and i really did like that guy. i am all messed up i just dont no what to do. HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-29 20:32:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe u should be single for a while and think about what u really want, and maybe talk to your boyfriend and tell him how your feeling
2006-11-29 20:35:27 · answer #1 · answered by susie ooozzz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh to be 16 again. And you have been in a relationship since you were 14! You are obviously very loyal and grown-up for your age. But you are 16, and I know everyone tells you "You are too young blah blah blah. so I am not gonna say that, because I too have been 16, in love, confused and in need of advice other than my Moms. But you are only 16! You have your whole life ahead of you. I would love to have that time over. You have the world at your feet! Enjoy your life now Hon, while you are still young and without kids, commitments, stress and such like. End this relationship, which is obviously not making you happy, and take time for YOU. Spend time with your gal friends shopping, laughing, and going out. Stay friends with this other guy if you like, but make sure he knows that you are NOT gonna be tied down again now, and that you want to taste life for awhile.
Once you have enjoyed life, and feel ready to settle down with a serious relationship, choose the right guy, make sure he respects you views and friends, and learn that love doesn't necessarily mean you can't "live". Be a 16 year old girl while you can, don't worry about long term committments now - there will be plenty of time for that believe me!
2006-11-30 04:59:28 · answer #2 · answered by dragonfly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmmmpp.......
2006-11-30 04:56:28 · answer #3 · answered by jankit_26512 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you tied down at 16? You should be out enjoying yourself with your friends. This fella obviously doesnt trust you very much either if he keeps going on bout your exes so id say 'get rid of him' and just enjoy being single for a while.
2006-11-30 04:54:40 · answer #4 · answered by kit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your relationship with this guy is past it's sell by date. You're only 16...this is the time to have fun. Ditch him and go out with you mates for a laugh. Don't go runniong straight back to your ex either. Be your own person for a while and have loads of fun.
2006-11-30 04:54:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah girlfriend you gotta wash that man right outta your hair.If he won't let you see your friends then he's no good.Also bringing up your past is awful too.When he heard about it he choose to stick with you so he shouldn't just throw it back in your face like that.
About going back to the ex.The fact that you're considering it makes me think you really don't want to be with your boyfriend.
Don't do anything until you're sure though.
2006-11-30 04:43:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to dump your new bloke and forget about your old bloke and concentrate more on your studies, unless of course you only aspire to becoming a single mother, moving into a council house and letting the state/tax payer finance your life!!!
2006-11-30 05:40:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to take time out for a while. I hate to say this, but you're too young to get serious and you should still be enjoying life.
2006-11-30 04:45:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
mzybe you need to take a time out and have a think? think about things and come up with some options.
2006-11-30 04:47:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋