Why if a girl likes to have 1 night stands (with protection), she a hoe! but 4 a guy it's ok?

Question

Why the double standard?

I'm not running around sleeping with people folks, i'm asking this question because lots of my friends are called hoes cause they like to just have 1 night stands....but they protect themselves and it's like y?

Answer 1

Honey, it's a man's world whether we want to admit it or not. Men want women who will give it up until they are ready to get married, then they want the Virgin Mary. Go figure.

Answer 2

Unlike a lot of men I don't hold a that common double standard. I have a quote, unqoute "problem" with relationships beyond the poin of intercourse. I prefer not to become emotionally attached to whomever I sleep with therefore I have endured many (not MANY MANY) but a sufficient amount of one night stands. So, from my perspective it is perfectly understandable or a woman to have the same complex. Besides I ca infer that mst of the men or women calling yor "friend" a hoe either, in the men's case want to be involved in one of theses one night stands, or in the womens' case wish they were gettig as much dick as your "friend". Or the third alternative is your friend crossed the line of being "promiscuous" and some time became a "hoe". I prefer to call those women "late night tip" lovers meaning they wil most likely never enter a man's house before 10:00 and probably will never leave after 8:00!! Sorry for being so frank!

Answer 3

we wont change into drained of trhem until eventually we get performed through the girl were attempting to play... thats what occurred to me recognize im married to her and we've not in any respect been happier... look if u like a guy and he's a hoe then u gotta ask your self if u can cope which include his lady count number lol if u cant dont attempt reason its purely gonna harm in the top yet when u can play his *** u have a 50/50 probability of him fallin for u thats some suggestion to the girls from an ex guy whore lol

Answer 4

Sociey plays an important role in making us hold double standards. In ancient days, women were regarded as property. If the property was used by anyone/everyone other than the owner, it depreciated (lost its value). This idea (that women are property) coupled with the rise of courtly love (which praised the virgin woman and saw her as unattainable) has carried over into the 21st century. Consequently, many men and women idealize love. Those who idealize love would like to believe that they are special and thus deserving of the "sacred fruit." Since courtly love never praised men for their chastity, we tend to assume that women should uphold that old ideal standard of "the virgin" woman. Thus, the double standard.

Answer 5

An old saying I grew up hearing my grandpa say..A guy will see how many notches he can get in his belt..For some reason guys think they are more manly the more women they have..Now think about this,,,if a guy wont marry a girl who has had many sexual partners,,then why do women marry guys who have???? Something to think about..Is why I really think that sex should not even come into existance till marriage..That way both of you are fresh and untouched..Kindof makes your marriage alot stronger..Be safe out there to with all the diseases cuz even protection cant protect you from it all...God bless you

Answer 6

it has always been like that. I guess that people are afraid of strong hearted women. I was like that when I was young really like sex so i had it alot its fun. I never cared what anyone said because I was my own person. if the guys find you attractive then good because guys like to have sex with good looking women. have fun just use protectoin enjoy life men do. they also would call you hoe because there man was having sex with you that happened alot when I was young I use to be called names but it didn't bother me because sticks and stones may brake my bones but names will never hurt me. I had my fantasy fofulled also was the best. it was to have a threesome and that it was

Answer 7

With or without protection doesnt make any difference, personally i feel that all these thinkings are being developed back in those older days whereby there's this sex discrimination againist girls. Perhaps that is why? Well, if one think that he/she is open minded enough, daring enough to accept any negative feedbacks, jus do whatever u want?

Answer 8

Its not a double standard.

Men and Women are NOT 100% biologically equal.

You are falling for this "new age" trick thinking that a vagina and a penis are equally sanitary.

They are not. If you keep letting guys grind your vaginal area it will do more physical, sanitary and emotional damage to you than to him.

like the one below me, she is nasty and im betting carries ALOT of emotional baggage. NO man would want her to birth his children or be proud to have his kids call her mom.

Answer 9

They are all hoes. It is just that guys don't see it as an insult.

Answer 10

No worries... You are not a ho in my eyes. Sleep with many guys as you can, just be safe about it. Good luck getting laid.