My boyfriend says it would turn him on to watch me have sex with two of his friends. I'm excited by the idea, but a little afraid too. What should I do?
2006-11-29 19:42:35 · 41 answers · asked by wraith 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This has always been a fantasy of mine. :-) There is nothing wrong with a little kink, as long as everyone is safe and consenting. Please don't do it if the idea makes you uncomfortable in ANY way. And think about the two friends and how their veiws of you and your boyfriend and your relationship might change.
2006-11-29 19:45:13 · answer #1 · answered by ;-) 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Look, its a question that only you can actually answer.. If your a girl, then i would say that your BF is pretty gay.. If not, then think of the consequences before doing this little escapade...
What does it say about your BF??? Does he want to touch you??? Why cant YOU be the one that turns him on???
You might feel attracted by this in the beggining, but its definitely going to affect you mentally afterwards...
To the person that said why are all gay men permiscous.. We arent all permiscous. Think about this. Men are always horny and girls arent. So it makes sense that gay guys just pick up other guys easier, because theyre out for exactly the same thing...
2006-11-29 19:54:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie DONT DO IT if you have any respect for yourself...A man who truly loves you would never put you in that position..When you love someone you keep yourself for them..It may sound exciting but trust me,,once you do this then you two get in a fight,,he will bring this against you...Long ago I made this mistake with my husband well my 2nd husband...I paid the price for it...Back then there were no computers so I couldnt ask others for advice and I dared not talk to my family...Please,,Dont do it...If he really loves you,,he would never suggest this...Sex is something done by two people who love each other...I will pray for you both
2006-11-29 19:48:58 · answer #3 · answered by glowworm 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is something that nobody can answer for you and you probably know that. So are you trying to figure out how many people would think bad of you if you do go to bed with 2-guys while your man watches? Because how other people feel about it doesn't make it right or wrong for you just for them. Whatever you decide you should probably keep it on the low but whatever you do don't do this if your just doing it for him.
2006-11-29 19:55:19 · answer #4 · answered by MedicineWoman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well this can back fire on you, what if one of the guys are better then your boyfriend, big trouble... Next, just remember the guys that you thinking about having sex with had other partners, so you're having sex with his partner too. So use protection, it can save your life....Most important do it only if you want too.
2006-11-29 19:51:31 · answer #5 · answered by scoody1016 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find Another boyfriend.
you are excited??? If you really are then nothing to say about you.
I'll suggest -- DON"T DO THAT.
Your boyfriend is just trying to take advantage. He wants to please his friends by making USE of you. Keep away from that guy. find another one who atleast have some feelings for you and care for you.
2006-11-29 19:49:56 · answer #6 · answered by shon 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOL U dump!!! he is not gonna like it!! well in one case yes!! he wants to play U and be entertained with his friends , then , do whatever he wants to U like a ***** and laugh at it later with his friends about " how fun it was to f**ck a girl like this and like that!!!!!!! if your bf really loved you he wouldn't even enjoy it if he knows that his friends might have some crash on you!!
2006-11-29 19:51:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
are in love with your boyfreinds? does you guys trust and respect each other? do you want to have s sincere and faithfull relationship? are u crazy in some way?
Dear these thing you do not let it happened with your boyfreind, you do it with freinds or people what you want to ****, but do not need a relationship. if you do this with your boyfrein, then expect that he will cheat on you and that he do not really enjoy having sex with you
2006-11-29 19:50:34 · answer #8 · answered by creoleman 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i'm telling you girl, if your boyfriend really tells you about that then I would say he's not really loving you. I must say it's a lust. Well, it also depends on your perspective. But as for me, i wouldn't have sex with someone i don't even like.
2006-11-29 19:55:08 · answer #9 · answered by glee 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
do it if u want 2 but if u don't feel comfortable with it just tell him you don't wanna do it. but i also con cider u get a new boyfriend cause this one sounds like his talking advantage of u.
2006-11-29 19:50:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋