even now my mom chooses dresses for me, i love this but i cant make a single dicision myself
2006-11-29 19:32:59 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Unless you move out or talk with your parents...the problem will exist...look at me...I am living with my parents...I am tolerating my folk...
2006-11-29 19:35:46 · answer #1 · answered by PS3 Fanatic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby girl don't get caught up in the whole 18 year old thing. Look around you and see where you are. Now picture yourself on your own. As a parent of 3 and being the only child that my mother had, I assure you things could be worse. Communication is important, Remember that. And although you may have heard this before I'm going to say it again. "You go through plenty of friends in life, But you only get one set of parents". Hold on to her love for you because only Jesus can love you more...
2006-11-30 03:43:00 · answer #2 · answered by egreen3rd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start with being more responsible and fulfilling your duties. Good grades, clean and organized room, helping with household work and mature attitude with a smiling face will indicate to your paretns that you are really grown up now. Never talk back. Put your thoughts in a calm manner like adults. Do not give them a reason to call you a child. Then, gradually you can push them over to a position where they can handle you as an adult.
2006-11-30 03:43:36 · answer #3 · answered by Smriti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously everyone like cares but some times people like to take there own decision and want others to repect it, no matter what age is. Actully your parents undertand you as a kid, so the only thing you can do is some times show that how mature, understanding, and decisive you are... once they realise that you are mature and gives value to faimly and their thoughts ... they relinqush ....and then don't stand with que " MY parents never take any decision for me, alsways ask me to do so".
2006-11-30 03:48:38 · answer #4 · answered by someOtherDay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will realize what you are detesting now was a boon when your married to a man who doesn't care to look when your dressed in your best of clothes neither does he care for what you wear nor bothers to choose stuff for you! So make the most of it now! you never know what future has in store for you!
2006-11-30 03:38:21 · answer #5 · answered by jinitha p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jus cause ur 18 does not mean u can do evrythin on ur own.. u def r an adult now... but like dey say u will always b a kid 4 ur parents... i knw its very annnoyin to hav your parents make all your decisions... but to avoid dat, make ur decisons on ur own but ask dem 4 help n approval... dey will also b happy cause wen dey do all dis dey jus wanna protect u... its true dat once u don get all dis u will miss it.. even though u find it annoyin now.. seriously make d most of it.. dey r ur parents n v r such.. so its bound to feel dis way..
2006-12-01 06:01:20 · answer #6 · answered by shivani a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Future Belongs to those,
Who Believe in the beauty of their dreams.
Act like a mature gal to enable ur parents to give u freedom of ur choice
2006-11-30 10:25:58 · answer #7 · answered by g_hnst 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think your situation is an ideal one......all of us at some point or the other want our parents to realise that we are capable of making our own decisions.........but this can be done tactfully...I'll give you an example.........supposing you go out to a mall to shop for clothes and your mom is busy selecting clothes for you...just pick something that you know she will like go into the changing room and change......if it really suits you and u r sure ur mom will approve she will let you pick it up........this way find ways to build he trust.....slowly once u know she trusts you begin extending your boundaries and if your parents object just tell them to trust you.....but be careful not to break their trust.......slowly they will surely let you go..........
2006-11-30 03:58:55 · answer #8 · answered by sasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi swati u knw wht i am 26 and still my mom checks my purse and puts in money if i am short on it...i earn and can manage myself but still she treats me like a kid...this behaviour is normal yaar...no matter hw much u grow up mom dad will treat us like kids since they love us very much...so dnt hurt her saying dnt do this i am capable of doing this all...if possible try to speak calmly to her .....hope this helps....
2006-11-30 03:46:11 · answer #9 · answered by rajdebrain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your 18 move out, go on with your life. Move far~far away!
2006-11-30 03:37:09 · answer #10 · answered by ~*~Tessa~*~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cherish is now becuase I wish my parents still did that 4 me.. don't get so panicy your onl 18.. you'll get older and they will stop caring about you and you will miss it.
2006-11-30 03:35:03 · answer #11 · answered by GodWillSaveMe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋