The only thing I know about the girl is that she is a dominatrix. I really should have been better behaved when I was younger.
2006-11-29 19:31:22 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Obviously you have been a very bad boy & as always, your parents know what is best for you. Practice being very VERY submissive now & count your blessings!
2006-11-29 19:34:47 · answer #1 · answered by Taya 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds to me you're going through an omiai (Japanese for arrange marriage meets), and honestly that is so Middle Ages ago.
It could have been worse when you were younger and you'd play spin the bottle with a few friend and get forced to kiss the girl you don't even like. With most families in Asia this is common practice, as well as those with royalty, so it's pretty much a marriage of convenience.
If you're neither rich or a prince, then you should really speak out especially if this woman is an dominatrix. There are some cases that arranged marriages do work out, if the girl is not as whacked as she would seem. But to be forced into a marriage with someone you would likely kill and be sent to prison with a big smile on your face, you should stand up for what you truly want and your parents doesn't have the right to force you.
2006-11-29 19:42:16 · answer #2 · answered by once_a_nerd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents know best just trust them. Of course it is a ritual for your parents to pay all your bills and cluding the down paymeny on a $250,000 starter home and a bank account with say $100,000 with a monthly allowence of $5,000 per month. So if this is so, stop complaining and do what they say. Be a man and accept thier generosity.
PS Lovers are also allowed under these types of arrangements as long as you are home by the time the fat ugly chick you married wakes up in the morning.
2006-11-29 19:37:17 · answer #3 · answered by laxthefacts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got to be kidding me! If you can be married off, then you are not a minor. Speak up and tell your parents you don't want to get married right now. If you are one of those people reliant on them financially and can't do without them, then you are pretty much cooked. If that isn't the case, talk to them, tell them you need time. I'm certain they love you as you love them and they will listen to what their son has to say. Tell them you are not opposed to marriage as such (hoping I'm right here) but right now you are not wanting to get into it and assure them you are not going to go through life as a bachelor. You will get married someday when you are ready.
2006-11-29 19:37:37 · answer #4 · answered by happykat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
her mat, it is me sara, what about the girl who arranged the cleaner boy i thouhgt you liked her and if you do just run away and be with the girl the maybe your parents would understand.
just mail me the we could talk more.
2006-11-29 19:37:08 · answer #5 · answered by sara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for your parents,
Guys have you read his other ?s
Good luck to the girl, but you must not worry after one day with you and listen to your joke she will run away
GUARANTEE
2006-11-29 19:41:16 · answer #6 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELL NO
This is America not INDIA...
You don't have to go into an arranged marriage if you don't want to..
That's a load of B Freak'n S
2006-11-29 19:33:34 · answer #7 · answered by sammyd734 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yep should have worn your good boy pants. lol
Some contries say you cant be forced into marriage so you can call the government?
2006-11-29 19:33:27 · answer #8 · answered by GodWillSaveMe 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why? How old are you? If you are at the right age, then why follow what they want. Follow your heart.
2006-11-29 19:34:01 · answer #9 · answered by manang bruka 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if your 18 or older move the hell out of there. kinda chicken sh!t, but your old enough to make your own choices...
if your younger.... where are you?? INDIA!?
you have unalienable rights, use them...
2006-11-29 19:41:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋