My wife of over twenty years died and now I'm alone i was just wondering if I can find love again, or am I too old and what should be the yongest age that i should look for another love of my life. I'm not that bad looking and slim build and have much more love to give a woman any ideas?
2006-11-29 19:18:51 · 25 answers · asked by DennisdaMenace55 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should go out to a bar or your work place look for an available women and tell her that you want to go for coffee for her. I think its a good time to date.. my grandma is 65 years old and she still dates.. she's a go getter tho.lol. Dates weird funny men with big noses.
2006-11-29 19:21:09 · answer #1 · answered by GodWillSaveMe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wish I could say something to break the bondage of loss for your wife, considering that I'm only 28 and still dating, but to delve in it is to find two things: either it's contentment or to just give up in that one part of life.
If you have kids, have you ever talked to them about remarrying, or dating again at one point? I hope you do, and nothing would please your kids to see you happy again with someone new. So you're not exactly in the prime of your life unlike 30 or 40 years ago, and when it comes to shape, well, if you're round then it's a shape so you had it made! It's all about reaching to a whole new lease in life, knowing that your wife who's up there watching over you would want you to move on, or at least not to wallop on your sense of loss (and she'd rather pick the first one, though). I know how it feels to lose a loved one, but there are some things in life that has to be on its track, and as the saying goes, now is as good a time as any. So buck up, go to a bar, or nightclub and meet someone new!
2006-11-29 19:30:13 · answer #2 · answered by once_a_nerd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you can.
You know all those things you worry about will come naturally. The factors, age looks, etc. small stuff, dont sweat it.. First find love in yourself, true love. Once you love yourself then age means nothing, the way you feel about yourself will strengthen. Which in turn builds confidence, leading to a more active personable friendly you.. Equalling a glow that exists about you that if, when and where love is it will see you coming from afar and will come to you.. I pray for you and hope all the best for you.
2006-11-29 19:38:04 · answer #3 · answered by inthrutheoutdoor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you probably did no longer make love, you had intercourse ! huge difference He cried, consistent with hazard from guilt, yet extra in all hazard because of the fact he exchange into scared his spouse would discover out. needless to say he did no longer spend the night with you, that would take too plenty explaining away to his spouse needless to say he seems at you longingly - you offered him intercourse on a plate and are chuffed to furnish him intercourse back . i do no longer consider various the posts here that decision you a slag .... on one point he's the single in the courting, you're no longer.. yet you're being naive and quite stupid in case you think of this is going to get you everywhere..you're 31 years old, no longer a stupid teen who does not understand any extra effective. And confident if he have been chuffed in his marriage then he does no longer be chasing you, yet consistent with hazard he's the variety who needs casual intercourse as and whilst he can discover somebody to furnish it to him.. if it wasn't you it would be somebody else.. Have extra appreciate for youself please. If no longer the rest, do you fairly must be with somebody who can take care of his spouse that way... down the line it particularly is YOU he cheats on ! on your man or woman sake and peace of techniques, forget this loser and finally end up a respectable guy who's loose to be with you. do no longer demean your self by throwing your self at a guy, who isn't loose to be with you and has instructed you that particularly it exchange right into a mistake and could in no way take place back.
2016-10-04 13:26:45 · answer #4 · answered by elidia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, since my uncle got married after his wife died, and though I am not sure his age I am sure he is older than you, go for it. I would say try to find someone around your age, but if the person happens to be younger, well as long as there are no fowl intentions I see no problem with it.
2006-11-29 19:22:03 · answer #5 · answered by Memnoch 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are never too old, man. Give love a try!! Make sure you don't look too hard...kinda let it find you. by that I mean, don't go to the bars and expect to find a good woman.
2006-11-29 19:22:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heck no you are not too old!! You only have one life to live. Anyone older than 29 wouldn't be robbing the cradle! Sorry to hear about your wife. That is so sad. She would want you to be happy. I'm sure.
2006-11-29 19:21:52 · answer #7 · answered by marincaligirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its never too late to find love. But at 51 there should be other reasons to life. Do find your love, but do not put your life on hold till you find one. Find other things to do like social work of charity work, that will give more meaning to your life and also it will bring you closer to your future love. Pardon me if I said more than what I should. nut8all@yahoo.com
2006-11-29 19:24:37 · answer #8 · answered by P S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good luck..... there are ladies that can match up your age.... i have known coule of them... waiting for the right man to come... even they're already on their late 30's and early forties.... you're not too old to find another love of your life...... take your time before time takes you.... good luck!!!!!
Start dating now!!!!
2006-11-29 19:22:28 · answer #9 · answered by bugi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no :) too old is when u think u are too old man if u can hook a woman for 20years u can hook another one suggestions find a dating website like yahoo or something and start fishing and sorry about your wife i know its hard
2006-11-29 19:26:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋