and that i had a "complete bast**d" magnet inserted somewhere internally because whatever i do i seem to attract the same type of man.Should i give up now and resign myself to being a spinster?Or are there some nice men living within the UK?Restore my faith please
2006-11-29 19:15:35 · 20 answers · asked by Nellynoo 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
STOP LOOKING, they don't exist!!! I've Searched High & Low! All men are like that it's in their genes ....the secret is that you got to learn how to handle them, manipulate them, train them to your every command. The ones that don't participate are the ones that become Alcoholics or otherwise known as the loser you see every night in the pub on falling around on the street dribbling. Depressed coz they can't find a women that finds the smell of booze, drink, kebab and puke attractive.
The secret is that you have to make them think that your great idea was actually there idea. Be it buying you a new car, new house, jewellry, taking you out for the night, spending a night in together, you going out with your mates etc etc etc.
It's then and only then that you will find happiness with a man.
2006-11-29 20:08:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
Well, I think I'm a reasonably nice guy -- so we exist.
What it comes down to is: how do you tell whether he's a nice man or a complete bast**d before getting in too deep?
I do Scientology answers so here you go:
There is a thing called the "emotional tone scale" which ranges from good emotions at the top (like cheerfulness) to bad ones at the bottom (like apathy). Everyone moves about on this tone scale depending on how they happen to be feeling at the time -- we all get angry, we all get upset and so on. The thing is that each person also has an underlying emotional tone, and that is the key to your problem.
If you choose someone with a low underlying tone then you've got problems. An easy one to spot would be someone who is always angry but there are more subtle and well-hidden ones. Is the guy genuinely calm or is he permanently apathetic? (First would be good, the second would be bad -- he'd suck the life out of you.) What about the needy type, or the charmer who'll stick a knife in your back and so on.
Most importantly, it *is* possible to figure out where the guy is on the tone scale, and it's not hard. If you search for "emotional tone scale" on a book sales site (like Amazon or eBay) you'll come up with a booklet, less than 10 quid, which will give you everything you need to know.
Happy hunting :-)
2006-11-30 06:10:12 · answer #2 · answered by replybysteve 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nelly-we are not all the same at all and there ARE nice guys out there for you-but if you are attracted to the badboy/player types.....can't help you there m'dear. CURLYJO_C...get your facts straight, you cannot possibly have been with every man in this world,therefore you are NOT qualified to say that all men are the same. I am heartily sick and tired of women like you who stereotype men as the same--just because you and your type have had bad relationships in the past,and cannot get over them,it does not mean all men are the same loathsome cretins that YOU are used too. Be sure of your facts before commenting.
2006-11-30 05:56:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Read "Lord of the Flies" and realise that everyone has the potential to be a complete bast**d, given the right (or wrong) situation.
You may have been unfortunate, or you may need to look at yourself in relationships and ask yourself if you're bringing that out of them? It is possible.
Otherwise, try looking in different places.
2006-11-30 03:27:40 · answer #4 · answered by jinz 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
True love is around the corner but you will recieve it only when you will be able to accept yourself for who you truly are. If you do not love yourself,(as is obvious from your question), How can you expect others to love you? Change the way you look at yourself and your whole world will change. Go out now and buy yourself a flower
2006-11-30 03:25:45 · answer #5 · answered by mindtelepathy 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Go and see a Voodoo specialist, if he can't cure you he could make a mess of your blokes, at least that way you will feel better.
As for the nice one there are a few, but like the good looking ones, they are hard to find.
2006-11-30 03:23:48 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
There are some lovely men out there. Maybe you are looking too hard, usually when you stop looking the nicest ones come along.
Good luck x
2006-11-30 03:19:18 · answer #7 · answered by lucyt20 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Remember opposites attract so that means u must be a great person to know. That also means your dream man is out there somewhere :-)
2006-11-30 03:28:34 · answer #8 · answered by rachel d 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Ahh the magnet funny lol love it tho!! We all have that problem but try going out and looking at the guys you don't and ask him if he wants to sit with you.. ex.. if you date jocks go look for a nerd.. they may surpize
2006-11-30 03:17:58 · answer #9 · answered by GodWillSaveMe 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
At least you have a good sense of humor about it. If the guys in the UK don't see a good woman they're missing out!
2006-11-30 03:20:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋