Who should I be with
1- a guy who I have been dating for 4 years. he got sent to prison 8 months ago and is coming home in 4 months. its unconditional love. hes sweet as can be, very good looking and love me alot but he has no job , no house no money no car hes 4 years older than me
2- a guy i have known for 10 years. been talking for the past few months, exact same age as me, very good potential to have a good job he just got stuck in a rut lately and hasnt been working, but alot of potential very good looking
3- ex boyfriend a guy 10 years older than me not that good looking, 2 homes, money his own business, cars , vacation property, alcoholic...cheated on me before
they all are after me right now i dont know who to choose what do u think??
2006-11-29 19:02:24 · 9 answers · asked by Lova L 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If one of these men was the right one for you, you would already know it. I suspect that you need to move on and keep looking for someone you KNOW is right.
2006-11-29 19:05:37 · answer #1 · answered by bashnick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change = yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.
Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. They don't respect women or children. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, Why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man.
Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street.
You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr.. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
2006-11-29 19:03:40 · answer #2 · answered by Photographer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say you have two choices. 1st, you can pick a better guy than any of the ones you listed, they all sound like losers to me. Or 2nd, you can invite all three over for a gangbang. Start looking for a better man or give it up to three jerks, a fellon, a sloth, or a drunk...you make the call.
2006-11-29 19:15:04 · answer #3 · answered by USAF, Retired 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 but youll go with 1 or 3
2006-11-29 19:04:36 · answer #4 · answered by stupadasso2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would follow my heart because without love, life really sucks.
Stay away from ex boyfriend because he is a jackass who doesn't care about you.
Date the guy who you have know for 10years...if there is no love, dump him...
There are plent of fishes in the sea...don't limit yourself...
2006-11-29 19:15:15 · answer #5 · answered by PS3 Fanatic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
None of the above... Find someone new and preferably with a job. Sweetie, i think its time to upgrade!
2006-11-29 19:05:20 · answer #6 · answered by mzagge06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your heart,it will always work out in the end.
2006-11-29 19:08:41 · answer #7 · answered by mexjay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
none of the above
2006-11-29 19:05:37 · answer #8 · answered by Frank the Frowner 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
choose me baby
2006-11-29 19:10:25 · answer #9 · answered by Ashish S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋