I`m 15 And My Boyfriend Slept With One Of My Best Friend`s, She Didnt Know He Was My Boyfriend So I`ve Forgiven her. I Still Really Like Him But Ever One Tell`s Me I`s Stoopyd And That I Need To Dump Him. I Dumped Him About An Hour Ago After Asking Him On The Phone He Admitted It And Still Wants To Be With Me? I Miss Him But Im Not Sure If He`s Going To Cheat On Me Agen? What Do i Do? And I Know I Shouldnt Go Back Out With Him But You Know What Its Like To Like Some One That Much You Just Would Forget About It?? I Need Help Please!!
2006-11-29 18:12:26 · 18 answers · asked by Tyra Perenara 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
everybody deserves a second chance...ONLY a second chance!
no one can make you happy but yourself, so do what think is good for you BUT be responsible for the consequences of your decisions or actions...ALSO, be cautious!
goodluck!
2006-11-29 18:16:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your best friend didn't know you were together? Hmmmm....
Lets see, hormones racing in all you teens. Can't seem to get a handle on it. You like him, you hate him, you like him again.
Your feelings may seem very real to you both right now, like its all the world to either one of you. You can't think of anything or anyone else.
I can tell you what I and everyone else in this thread can tell you and that's dump him. Get over him. But that's not what you're going to do. You took an hour to think about it, this tells me that you were hurt, but not enough to let him go.
Oh you went thru the motions of dumping him, but here you are, asking us this question...
Life is a school of hard knocks. Your heart already made up its mind. Just make you head believe it. You will make the wrong decision. But then se la vi, you will cope and you will learn and you will grow.
Can't do that 'virtually'.
2006-11-29 18:29:57 · answer #2 · answered by Mr O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he abruptly has matters to do this he certainly not had to do before...When he avoids your calls, or is not there to take them, if his perspective towards you is altering, if he tells you he "just wants some ME time" should you live collectively some of these are signs too... 1. Diminish wish to be with you sexually. 2. Instantly tries new sexual positions. Three. Working late more most of the time. 4. Mysterious phone calls. 5. Gets angry whilst you appear at the mobilephone telephone, pager, or computer. Is secretive of such. 6. Odor of fragrance on their apparel. 7. Takes a bathe as quickly as he comes home. 8. You find hairs or other objects on his physique or in his possessions. 9. Begins taking extra care together with his look. 10. Accuses you of cheating. Eleven. He changes his natural pursuits without motive or cause.
2016-08-09 23:55:29 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
15 yrs old huh? take a look around you, there are plenty of boys out there, and better looking than he is. You will never forget what he did if you do have him back so DONT. Theres a really special boy out there that will make you feel like a princess. Just give him a chance to find you.It will happen really soon.A leopard never changes his spots. Your ex. will do it again, and again, and again.
2006-11-29 18:21:56 · answer #4 · answered by Daydreamer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How could your BEST FRIEND not know he was your boyfriend? If you get back together with him, it's like saying sure go ahead and cheat, I'll dump ya, but always come back to you.
2006-11-29 18:19:02 · answer #5 · answered by sweetgurl13069 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry for you honey, dump the loser, you're only 15. He'll cheat on you again. Better find some new friends while your at it.
Of course he will tell you he wants to be with you, wasn't he with you when he cheated with your "best friend"?
2006-11-29 18:34:47 · answer #6 · answered by ~*~Tessa~*~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you hook back up with that boy somebody ought smack you in your head. Once a cheater always a cheater. Plus he's 15 so that make it even more likely that he will cheat on you again. There is somebody way better out there for you...don't be desperate.
2006-11-29 18:17:37 · answer #7 · answered by soulfullilangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look inside yourself and find the self respect you so desperately need right now. You deserve better. Do you think you are gonna be happy with him when you dont have an ounce of trust for him?
2006-11-29 18:15:03 · answer #8 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if you were to get back with him, what makes you think, what makes you trust him enough that he won't do this again?
You're 15 years old, don't tie yourself to one slum already. I know already that there's another, BETTER, guy out there for you. Even though it's hard.. you have to move on. It'll only make you stronger.
2006-11-29 18:19:23 · answer #9 · answered by Chant 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ditch him. You got plenty of time to find a boyfriend that won't cheat on you, there's plenty of fish in the pond, you know?
Giving him another chance is just giving him permission to disrespect you AGAIN.
2006-11-29 18:17:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of your best friends didn't know he was your boyfriend???That's stupid, you don't talk to your friend???
You need to get a grip, dump the friend and the boyfriend, they will both back stab you again...And if your dumb enough to take him back, don't come crying here, all you will get is i told you so's....
2006-11-29 19:24:02 · answer #11 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋