well..for one..i like this girl. im 13 years old. she doesnt know i like her, and she has a bf and goes to another school.we used to know each other from elementary but she moved. i know she used to like me. is there anyway for me to make her like me again? instead of her bf right now
2006-11-29 18:09:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
AND we talk a lot, even if shes at a different school
2006-11-29 18:15:56 · update #1
I'd hazard an answer and say that you're trying to steal your childhood sweetheart back from the one she's currently dating. It's kind of sweet, really, considering that you know you care about her more than you may think you know.
But consider this saying: there's no time like the present. It's a common term, yeah, but if you think about her position first before your own, how would she feel when you're trying to break her up with her current beau? If I had a chance to be 13 again then I'd definitely would keep close tabs with my childhood sweetheart through phone calls and letter (no emails back in early 90s). Having a long distance relationship (if I could call that one) is tough considering the factors involved like meeting someone close to her. I won't go for the 'there's plenty of fish out there' thing, but before you can catch yourself a swordfish, you know you should catch something small at first.
You're young, and it is a good thing since you'll have a couple more years to meet new girls out there. What makes reality hard is that friends do come and go with the flow of time. But don't let that circle of friends (especially a gf) thin out all because one 'got away'. But not to dash your hopes, I suggest that you talk to her as a friend, kind of like being the funny guy a girl can confide on. Most girls are serious by nature even if they consider themselves funny or laid-back, but they would want someone to brighten their day even more with a funny guy at their side. Eventually, if fate allows it you and her will be together one day.
2006-11-29 18:24:33 · answer #1 · answered by once_a_nerd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of it man. Respect the relationship. The only way to do this is to be a supportive friend, but not at her every beckoning call. Have a life, even talk to other girls. If she breaks up with him, only then can you make your move. But you will be better off not trying to wreck the relationship. Wait your turn.
2006-11-30 02:13:12 · answer #2 · answered by bluestar_dreamsx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way to make her like you. Chances are that if she used to like you then there is a good chance that she would like you again. Just call her and be her friend and be really nice to her. Tell her that you still like her and if she breaks up with her bf that you would like to go out with her again. Just be really nice to her and be her friend first...
2006-11-30 02:13:10 · answer #3 · answered by Lova L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probably still likes you, but since you are not around all the time, she looks for friends in her new school
2006-11-30 03:12:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 13 for goodness sakes!!!!!!!! Get over it and go play baseball!
2006-11-30 02:12:35 · answer #5 · answered by lizardmama 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boyfriend? Girlfriend? At your age, you should just be friends with everyone; not anyone serious.
2006-11-30 02:12:27 · answer #6 · answered by Nancy D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are so many gurls, find one that's available!
2006-11-30 02:12:04 · answer #7 · answered by kissgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself and make yourself a freind
2006-11-30 02:15:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, she's spoken for
2006-11-30 02:11:03 · answer #9 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋