Why does this keep happening?

Question

I hate dreaming about my boyfriend, everytime I dream about him he does something awful that would no doubt hurt me. I once had a dream that I was talking to him and his face turned into one of my exs and I wouldn't let him touch me and I was truly dissapointed. Last night I dream't that this girl came from over sees and she was his girlfriend and I didn't even know it and I had to make it look like nothing happened between us just to make it look good to her and he ignored me and didn't even tell me what was going on, and I slapped him so hard and said 'you told me you don't cheat!' and he just said yeah I know and he was trying to hold me whilest she was sitting in the other room... I've only been going out with him for nearly 4months and he is sweet and all but I always have these horrible dreams, why?

Answer 1

you're probably insecure

Answer 2

I had similar things with my now ex. I'd have bad dreams about her all the time. It could be something as simple as you being insecure (if that can be descirbed as simple), it could be that your partner is so nice you're afraid of losing him, perhaps you resent somehting about him that you're not really looking at objectively, or it could be something else. I looked into the subconscious stuff a few years ago now but one of the things I checked out was to do with past lives. Sounds corny but what if you'd met in a previous life and been let down by this person?

Anyway I'd really recommend some form of counselling or therapy to address the issue whichever theory you choose. If you really love that someone and want to be happy you'll want to be rid of the distractions!

Good luck

Answer 3

it's really nothing to be worried about, my girlfriend often has dreams where I physically hurt her, some of them are very graphic and disturbing. she wakes up crying all the time and it breaks my heart. If you want an interpretation for a dream go to www.dreammoods.com

Answer 4

This happens when someone constantly is thinking of someone. You probably are thinking about your boyfriend a lot..this is not bad, and don't read too much into these horrible dreams.

Answer 5

I often have dreeams like this and i have been with my boyf for nearly 4 years, i think it is a security thing.
I have often woken up in tears because i have dreamt he has cheated on me.
You are not the only one to have dreams like this.

Answer 6

You like him but deep down in your heart you think hes to good for you, that perfectly normal. You think theres no way he could be going out with you so your mind plays tricks to fill in the gaps just reashure yourself hes a good man and if you didnt deserve him he wouldnt be with you

Answer 7

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Answer 8

Dont worry about the dreams.

Your probably having those dreams because you really like him and your afraid of losing him.

Answer 9

you sound very insecure and seem worried about him cheating or leaving you. why?

have others done that to you before?


just enjoy the time you have with him, otherwise you could end up pushing him away.

good luck

Answer 10

It sounds like your doubting yourself and I sense so insecurity in there somewhere. Have you been hurt before, or do you just have a trust issue?!