its really a big help 4 me to know your ans. coz, i dnt know what shall i do....
2006-11-29 17:10:28 · 8 answers · asked by shane a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
No - they have their reasons...their money, your academic performance so far, education beliefs, etc. Are you prepared to pay for it yourself?
2006-11-29 17:16:05 · answer #1 · answered by obenypopstar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have the right to feel anything you feel, it is your actions that you need to take cafre with. Why won't they send you to college? Is it the money? The college you chose? The location? Their beliefs about higher education?
There could be numerous reasons. For example: Your parents need to put away money toward their returement. You can borrow money to go to school, yor parents won't be able to borrow money to live on then they are retired and need money.
You can't control their decisions. The only thing you can control is yourself. So take the time now to apply to schools and check out financial aid options. Make sure it is what you really want before you put yourself in debt because you will be paying for this for a long time. It is worth it if you are going to work hard and study -- a lot! Do some research into the field that you want to go into to find out the job market and possibilities of getting a job when you are done with school. One way to make it easier on finances is to go to comunity college first and then transfer to a 4 year college. It is also easier to get into a good 4 year college this way. :o) Just make sure to keep a close eye on what will be transferable to the next school, you don't want to have to repeat classes and spend the extra money.
Good Luck!
2006-11-29 17:32:56 · answer #2 · answered by InterpreterNatalie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its probably not fair to be angry. Your parents may have very good reasons for not being able to do what you'd like when it comes to school.
You have a right to be unhappy about it, though. You need to talk to your parents and people at school about your wish to attend college. There is financial help and remedial help if you need either of those. A guidance counselor can give you some direction, so talk to one at school.
You mention "parent" not "parents", so if you have one single parent there's a good chance that parent has some real financial challenges. There is also the chance your parent(s) think you may want to do something other than attend college.
Tell people (parents, school people) what you would like to do. Let them help you figure out how to accomplish what you want in terms of education.
Try to have some understanding of your parent(s).
2006-11-29 18:24:35 · answer #3 · answered by WhiteLilac1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I honestly believe that if you are ready to go to college, you are ready to take care of yourself.. don't be mad at your parents, they have done all the previous legwork for you, it's your turn to take care of things now. Get a good job and work your way through... I worked 3 jobs and put myself through college...
I believe that if young adults can be responsible for themselves and earn what they get, they will be better, more mature adults!
Get to the college of your choice, apply online if you want to, it's available for anyone to do themselves now! Get financial aid, or grants if you don't have the money to get started... and last if not least, get a student loan to help you get through school... don't be dependent on anyone else, even your parents... it's time for them to take care of themselves now! They have earned it! :0)
Good luck with school dear,...study hard, get good grades, if you really are serious about what you want, and put yourself into it, you can earn scholarships to help you make it through the 4 years to graduation!
2006-11-29 17:23:25 · answer #4 · answered by MaggieO 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO! They could have serious financial problems that prevent them from trying to help you pay for college this year -- that is why you need to save the money from YOUR job to pay for the college if you want it so bad ...
2006-11-29 18:06:38 · answer #5 · answered by sglmom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Judging by your grammar I'd say you arent ready for college anyway. No you dont, college is expensive. Get a job for a year and hope to get in next year.
2006-11-29 17:55:03 · answer #6 · answered by Mr. Dizzle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No..you have no rite to be angry with your parents. All parents want heir kids to be success. Check with them is it becoz of finacial issues...or mayne there are other reasons. Do not quick to jump to conclusion..! you might regret it.
2006-11-29 19:05:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand this question. Are you angry with your parents for not sending you to school?
2006-11-29 20:34:44 · answer #8 · answered by Voodoid 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋