I love talking to my boyfriend on the phone for long periods of time. I relate to him much more than most guys my age who are only interested in MTV BET and acting like jackasses. I relate to him because we share the same views and like to do the same things and like nature a lot. I like discussing world events, history and many things with him. You people are so stupid to think that everyone my age is like one of those ditzy airheads who has no thoughts of her own. We have similar worldviews and love discussing many topics. Please leave your ASSumptions behind
2006-11-29 17:06:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
An old "aquaintence" of mine was 41. I was 24. It was wonderful. We brought out all good things in each other. We laughed. We talked. We had a ton in common. I agree with you. Men our age don't get it.
2006-11-29 17:10:15 · answer #1 · answered by IMHO 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They can relate to each other on many levels. But sooner or later the GAP causes problems in the relationship as the years go by. Examples would be friends - your friends have nothing in common with your older bf, so you don't get to hang out with them both at the same time AND starting a family is another problem that arises. You may not be ready for kids where he is to the point where he is getting too old to have kids!
Good luck! It may work for some, but not others!
2006-11-29 17:17:40 · answer #2 · answered by jane 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, congratulations on ending college. i ended college final 3 hundred and sixty 5 days and that i know how plenty no longer common artwork and dedication should be positioned into that. Definetly isn't common. You do have plenty happening on your existence. you're extremely sensible, centred, and committed...traits that a sensible guy would discover very appealing. the actuality is there are men that are intimidated by sensible women human beings. yet any guy that doesn't decide for a solid sensible female is the single that loses in the tip. think of of it as their loss. each and each guy which you encountered consisting of the single that complimented you yet suggested which you intimidated him lost out. each and each guy you probably did no longer finally end up with wasn't meant to be yet purely made you nearer to that impressive guy. issues take place in existence once you're no longer searching for them. you decide directly to proceed to do what makes you chuffed. this suggests no longer sacrificing who you're just to alter into somebody you're no longer. you do no longer choose to alter your self in order that which you think of you are able to entice men that way. do no longer dumb your self down and be like those "slutty and much less sensible women." Your courting status isn't a demonstration of who you're as a man or woman.
2016-10-04 13:23:04 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
History has shown us that many may/December romances fail after a short period of time. Eventually the newness of the relationship wears thin and trouble begins. You may feel you have a lot in common now..but wait till you run out of things to say.you may find that your shared interests don't stretch as far as you would like.
2006-11-29 17:12:19 · answer #4 · answered by mopjky 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
a lot of younger girls relate to older guys cause girls are always mature and guys aren't for a while so its like you either get a guy your age with maturity level or go older just be safe some older guys are nice then turn out to be creeps and if he more then 3 years older there's a problem
2006-11-29 17:11:43 · answer #5 · answered by C 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
well - the problem is not WHY
the answer is WHY NOT
U needn't explain your reasons - world view etc
just that 'the guys of your age' are still just interested
and you said it YOUR MTV Bet
btw what is that?
2006-11-29 17:10:10 · answer #6 · answered by Martin T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know wat u mean, i hate how ppl always think that if your not near the same age as eachother theres no way in hell you culd relate to one another. im 14 and i can relate to my friend whos 22 and my friend whos 28. very well actually.
2006-11-29 17:12:36 · answer #7 · answered by dmntdchick 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-29 17:09:53 · answer #8 · answered by c g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you asking a question or griping? whats the age difference?
2006-11-29 17:11:36 · answer #9 · answered by sufferingnomad 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
" You sound very angry...kinda like a young person would who is not quite mature yet.Still a bit insecure?????"
2006-11-29 17:10:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋