Yeah, I haven't had my first kiss yet, but I want it to be perfect. Is there anything that makes a kiss good, and a kiss bad?
2006-11-29 17:02:32 · 22 answers · asked by demon_card99 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Er what would I do if I had to sneeze or something? Or she was really into it and then such a tragedy happened?
2006-11-29 17:27:46 · update #1
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http://www.hugkiss.com/kiss/2kiss.html
A good kiss...
Softly and slowly. You don't want to bump faces on your first time out. A sweet brush of lips feels good whether it's your first time or your hundred and first time.
Remember that a kiss is a very sensory act. You'll be close enough to breath the person in, to feel their skin against yours.
Relax!
Be aware of your partner. Is he/she leaning in or holding back waiting for you to move? If they're leaning in, you can gently lay one hand against their cheek and lean to meet their lips.
Begin with your lips closed. Keep it soft and light.
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Not so good kisses:
Bumpy rides
-these kisses are more like a collision of faces than a sharing experience.
Don't go too fast.
Wet Wet Wet
-too much mouth and tongue before the kiss even begins leave you with a bad taste in your mouth.
Don't go too fast.
Peckish kisses
-You're not a chicken. Better just a brush of lips against each other than a peck.
Try it against your own hand... peck and then brush and see which one feels better.
Habit forming or habit sharing?
-Make sure your teeth are brushed and you smell good
This isn't the time to have someone hooking the gum out of your mouth with their tongue or pulling back because all they can taste is cigarettes.
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What would happen if you sneezed?
Well, you'd just pull back and sneeze.
It's not a tragedy and would likely make both of you laugh. A kiss is supposed to be fun! It sounds like you're worrying way too much about it but trust me, your body knows what to do. The fact that it's important to you that it be good means it will be. :)
Just relax and let it happen.
2006-11-29 17:08:45 · answer #1 · answered by Canadian_mom 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A kiss is bad when the person you are kissing is thinking only of themselves during the kiss. They're going through whatever motions feel good to them without considering you.
A good kiss is really paying attention to the other person, to thier body and expression and what they are saying with their eyes. When your lips touch it is a gentle searching, a discovery, and as the kiss progresses like tasting something precious and delicious that you want to savor...
Watch some romantic movies to pick up some moves, and hold off on deep tongue penetration til a time when you get to heavy petting.
Good luck with it!
2006-11-29 17:15:34 · answer #2 · answered by heart o' gold 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any first kiss is a good one!!! Don't force yourself on her and let her respond to the kiss and it will be memorable.
Odds are 100:1 that you won't sneeze on her, but hopefully if you felt the urge to sneeze you would have the good sense to turn your head and not sneeze in her face (that would be memorable in a bad way!!!)
2006-11-30 10:03:35 · answer #3 · answered by zonagirl90 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only thing that make a kiss bad is insecurity and timing. BE confident if there is chemistry time it right and go for it (after the first or second date) depending on the girl.
2006-11-29 17:05:55 · answer #4 · answered by Enchanted Crystal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes a bad kiss is someone that comes on too strong and right away sticks their whole tongue in your mouth.
a good kiss on the other hand is soft and gently, light gentle touches on each others lips slowly put the tip of your tongue on her lips and if she wants she will respond by gently touching u back with her tongue and after that just be gentle and tender.
i m sure you will do well just relax and take it as it comes. good luck!
2006-11-29 17:07:48 · answer #5 · answered by lotty_51 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bad: Bad Breath
Good: Closed eyes, soft touch to the neck
2006-11-29 17:05:38 · answer #6 · answered by Curio-ous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good- when you kiss somebody you and adore very much
bad-when you are using deep kiss with someone you dont love very mch
all in all it depend on the person you are kissing
2006-11-29 17:09:08 · answer #7 · answered by rudzi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
any kiss will be good if its with the right person that you love..
the only thing that makes a bad kiss is..
if it is done with the wrong person..
2006-11-29 17:08:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Practise kissing the mirror!
2006-11-29 17:05:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a bad kiss=too much slobber! lol a good kiss=good combo of tongue action and pecks! Good luck..don't over think it and I am sure you'll do fine!
2006-11-29 17:05:44 · answer #10 · answered by justmedrt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋