Ok, a few months ago, this chubby girl told me how much she liked me, and I turned her down. Two months later, I see her again, and she has gotten slim and cute looking. However, she is also ENGAGED. But I can tell she still likes me. And now that she's skinny, I don't feel so bad being with her. Do I go for it? Ask her out? Tell her what's on my mind? I am sure that I am her first choice, after all. I still don't like her that way, but at least now it's ok to be seen with her. She's only engaged, not yet married...
And don't even say that I am a pig or sh1t like that. At least I'm being honest.
2006-11-29 16:59:50 · 9 answers · asked by marik 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you don't like her in that way why bother?? She wants to get married if she is engaged already. I guess if you are just looking to hook up with her before she gets married then well all you can do is ask her... go for it, if she does then she's the pig and your a.. hmmm well you already know that one.
2006-11-29 17:04:48 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you try to pursue a relationship with someone who you don't like in that way? and what's worse, is why would you diss her because of her weight? big deal, she was packing a few extra pounds...she liked you, you turned her down, she lost weight and got engaged, and that is her way of telling you: EAT YOUR HEART OUT!!
She deserves a guy who actually CARES about her! And if you are willing to break up her engagement just so you can be seen with her now that she is thin, then you obviously don't care about her!
Well, for you to ask people not to call you a pig, then you must already know how much of a swine you are...
2006-11-29 17:14:08 · answer #2 · answered by TaureanAngel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do no longer bail, which will provide the different female a danger to be with him because you're absent. truly, placed on your perfect gown and be sensible. he's YOUR husband now, so that you at the moment have him. do not care what different female imagine! He married you because he loved you on your personality, its no longer all because of seems. So stand reliable, and bypass to that wedding ceremony! educate to everyone that he married you for a reason, and that he's taken. wish this helps!
2016-11-29 23:15:18 · answer #3 · answered by erke 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't feel bad cause she's skinny now?
I thought you would have felt bad that the only reason you wouldn't date her was cause she was fat.
I don't think you deserve her, I'm sorry. Not saying you're a pig, but how long could that relationship last if you're only attracted to her cause she's cute now?
2006-11-29 17:06:03 · answer #4 · answered by retzy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sh*t happens for a reason. Do what you think is necessary. Just make sure its something you won't regret later on.
2006-11-29 17:02:19 · answer #5 · answered by Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r a shallow person...looks arent everything
2006-11-29 17:04:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
NO DONT GO FOR IT. LEAVE HER ALONE. U DONT WANT ANYTHING SERIOUS WITH HER, AND SHE'S ALREADY ENGAGED. WUT IF SHE DOES BREAK HER ENGAGEMENT THINKING DAT U WILL PROPOSED TOO. SHE ALREADY HAS HER FUTURED PLANNED, DONT MESS IT UP FOR HER. THERES OTHER GURLS, DONT USE HER.
2006-11-29 17:05:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you had your chance buddy, if you approach her now, she'll know it is only for her body.
2006-11-29 17:31:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it - you deserve each other!
2006-11-29 17:03:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋