Why or why not? Under what circumstances would you allow your past transgressions come up in your current relationship when you have been totally faithful to your current?
2006-11-29 16:32:05 · 14 answers · asked by dnisey64 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Update: His ex cheated on him. He caught THEM in his bed.
2006-11-29 16:47:42 · update #1
No way...the past is the past and leave it be_
2006-11-29 16:34:13 · answer #1 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It is not a question of circumstances but one of is it WISE? You are playing with fire by bringing the past baggage out from previous relationships. You would be kindling the flames of mistrust in your current relationship. If you happen to be late or detained in an appointment, your husband/boyfriend would relate on the fact that you were unfaithful in the past; therefore, could you be at it again? Simply, not worth it.
2006-11-29 16:41:45 · answer #2 · answered by guraqt2me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There really isn't any reason to share your past mistakes w/ the current. It would give him reason to distrust you. The saying goes once a cheater always a cheater but that's not written in gold. If cheating is a habit yes but if it's only a one time thing don't punish yourself.
2006-11-29 17:29:17 · answer #3 · answered by uknowme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i was in this situation, I wouldn't tell my current boyfriend about the past especially if I created a problem by cheating on someone. Because then he will have less trust for you, the past should stay in the past, so you can start new.
2006-11-29 16:36:49 · answer #4 · answered by Trina 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I asked my boyfriend if he has ever cheated on any of his ex girlfriends and he said no.
2016-03-22 20:20:18 · answer #5 · answered by Laur 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What he would not know wont kill him... But if he ever asks the purpose in your destroy-up with ur ex inform him the entire reality and do not put the blame on urself. If he quite loves u he will real recognize ur role. We all make mistakes and be taught from them...
2016-08-09 23:55:08 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What he doesn't recognize wont kill him... yet when he ever asks the reason on your damage-up with ur ex tell him the total actuality and do not positioned the blame on urself. If he truly loves u he will fairly understand ur position. all of us make blunders and learn from them...
2016-10-07 23:59:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you're trying to start an argument.
If you two end up in a "what did you do in the past? discussion."
Other wise keep quiet. If it's discovered, deal with it honestly, and that yo felt it best not to bring it up in the first place.
2006-11-29 16:34:41 · answer #8 · answered by mt_hopper 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No it would just make him sit and wonder if you cheated on him or not. And once you tried explaining to him that you haven't he might not believe you but then again he could respect you for being honest with him. Just do what your heart tells you to do.
2006-11-29 16:34:38 · answer #9 · answered by Just Some Girl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
certain rules have to be set in your relationship and 'NOT discussing past relationships' should be one of them
NO, i wouldnt tell because it will come back and bit me in the *** later (trust me)
YES, i would discuss them WHEN i know that person is for me for the rest of my life. i wouldnt want any secrets between us then
2006-11-29 16:43:39 · answer #10 · answered by Truth D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let it be. It's irrelevant now, let dead dogs lie. Not everyone likes to have everything "shared" with them, there is such a thing as, "too much information".
2006-11-29 16:36:00 · answer #11 · answered by michinoku2001 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋