my husband kisses my 15yo step son on the lips. im not sure if ok or not...
2006-11-29 16:30:06 · 23 answers · asked by Simply Me 5 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
As long as there is no tongue involved it should be just fine.
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2006-11-29 16:37:18 · answer #1 · answered by Thanks for the Yahoo Jacket 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to work at a retail store a few years ago in Washington State, and have seen fathers kiss their sons on their lips before. It threw me the first time I saw it, but it was more common than I thought at first. A large part of the community was Eastern European, and their culture differs from ours. Nothing inappropriate was going on, and even though I'd never kiss my father on the lips (or at all for that matter, an awkward hug is all I need) if that's what works in their culture and it's not hurting the kids, then it's their free right.
If your husband isn't doing it inappropriately, and your son doesn't have an issue with it, then there is no problem. If your son minds, then ask your husband to stop.
2006-11-29 18:25:44 · answer #2 · answered by Scott 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In some cultures it incredibly is everyday. i've got considered fathers and sons kiss one yet another on the lips in the past - usually interior the Italian lifestyle. with regard to the lap and hair area, i do no longer comprehend what to declare to that. i assume i might ought to work out it. If it quite is a rapid coach of love, i do no longer think of there is something incorrect with it. yet i've got no longer witnessed this, so i could no longer inform you.
2016-12-14 09:30:58 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's fine for a parent to kiss their child on the lips... our society has been ruined of this because some horrible people taking innocent things and crossing the line with them. A quick peck on the lips is okay, there is and should be a difference in the way you kiss your child and how you kiss your mate.
2006-11-30 03:35:59 · answer #4 · answered by 2007 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is not OK. Some people are more affectionate than others, yet kissing a stepson on the lips, especially considering that he's a teenager now, is wrong. Be careful, your husband might be a predator who married you to get to your son.
2006-11-29 22:59:51 · answer #5 · answered by roxusan 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If it is a quick peck, sure, why not???
I will kiss my son on the lips when he is a man in 18 years...I love him to death. As long as it is short and sweet in a loving parent type of way, not a creepy way.
2006-11-29 16:43:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. It's o.k. And frankly, I find it touching when men do this. A lot of men in my family come from a very traditional upbringing and kissing male relatives on the lips is a very strong sign of love, respect, and family unity.
Not only is it o.k...it's extremely healthy.
2006-11-29 17:00:28 · answer #7 · answered by Jen 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure why not, as long as it is a father son kiss. And nothing more than that. It is his son. Nothing is wrong with affection.
2006-11-29 16:33:01 · answer #8 · answered by LITTLE 1 :o) 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What the **** kind of society do we live in where people think there's something sexual about a little sign of paternal affection? You people make me sick. Go gossip about your neighbours or whatever the hell else you pathetic, mindless sheep do.
2006-11-30 18:49:11 · answer #9 · answered by Keyring 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
as strange as it seems it is okay for some cultures and families.
i personally think it is wierd, but that is cause i had a wierd up bringing.
2006-11-29 16:33:44 · answer #10 · answered by beachgirl90 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋