Heres the story(4weeks)...this girl, we always use to go lunch, out to movies, and even the occasional dinner/going out with friends of ours. Everything was really great...she likes to touch me alot, and we always use to laugh....now all thats gone, the past week has been really hard as i dont know what has happened. Her B/f did break up with her, but we use to go on lunches even before that happened. I didnt make the move cause i really didnt want to move too fast for the girl. Im so annoyed at her this past week...she doesnt respond to my txt's, unless its really urgent, and she seems to have gotten real distant from me...i have yet to ask her why, but she works with me, and i dont want to say anything yet...i really like her, and dont know what to do...One thing i noticed though, is shes really nice and laughing to everyone else...but shes now got a awkward feeling towards me everytime im there, as if she doesnt want to talk to me/ignoring me. and then we think girls arent evil
2006-11-29 16:27:58 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well its obvious that the main reason she started talking to you was because she felt that her relationship with her boyfriend was coming to an end. So, in a way, she was using you as a back up plan, or to make him jealous, or so that she can feel better about herself becuase she has a little lap-dog chasing her around. Now that she has broken up with her boyfriend she is worried you will make a move on her and is now avoiding you because shes not into you. you were used my friend.
2006-11-29 16:34:28 · answer #1 · answered by niki s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be straight. Make her give you the respect that she would want. Be polite and stern when you request her that she be fair and tell you whats up. Accept her answer and remember good friend don't hurt each other. If you are not able to get closer move on and remember be proud and don't let this become an excuse to empower others to maintain your journey in life.
2006-11-29 16:37:19 · answer #2 · answered by bikerdarby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like her boyfriend couldn't handle or was jealous of your and her friendship.
She really wants your friendship but realizes that it's hard to have a really great guy friend that she's not dating.
It will always be a problem, even to those people who tell you it's ok to have friends of the opposite sex while dating someone else.
2006-11-29 16:38:43 · answer #3 · answered by I don't get it 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, maybe after she broke up with her boyfriend she realized she didn't really want to... and now she looks at you as the "bad guy" who got her to break up with him.
I'm not saying you're a bad guy, it's just what I came up with after putting myself in her position.
And the person above me also has a really good point...
2006-11-29 16:34:35 · answer #4 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋