hmm, is there really such a thing as soulmates? Or can you fall in love and be with anybody.....is there someone specifically out there with a label on him for me??
2006-11-29 16:18:28 · 14 answers · asked by silllyfox 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well i believe there is. and u know what i beleive i found mine.
BUT wait- my advice is be a pessimist than an optimist when it comes to this (this way you'll only be plesently surprised and not disapointed).
"Soulmate" sounds great often even though we may not admit it we want one and we want to believe he/she is out there. we want it so bad that we might sometimes go 'bark up the wrong tree', if u know what i mean.
u may fall in love several time in life but there will be someone who you set aprt from everyone else and if u are lucky enogh to find em- u are truely lucky.
forget the the dawson creek sterotypes (make up ur own definition of what a sould mate is to u). goodluck u sillyfox....i hope u find what u r looking for.
2006-11-29 16:38:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think there are many people who could potentially be your "soulmate"... I mean, if your soulmate was in Asia and you live in the US, it would be very very unlikely you would ever come in contact with the person. So we find people closer to us and basically make it happen with them. How many people do you know say that their b/f or g/f is their soulmate, and they went to high school together, or live in the same town, or at least the same country? Just statistically, if there was only one person for you, then you would never meet them, so you would never know if you actually had a soulmate or not. Most people just make it work with a person they really love...
In short, I think people make soulmates up, haha...
2006-11-29 16:28:20 · answer #2 · answered by F.J. 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not soulmates but Kindred Spirits is more of what you are looking for. I believe we have those around us that we were destined to spend time with during this lifetime. It could be a lover, a friend, a sister or parent. There are those that could have been a lover in a former life but a friend in this one. I believe my honey and I were meant to be together and I believe my best friend (of 18 years) is a kindred spirit too. We were meant to be together to help each other out and help guide us on this journey.
You could have already met one or will when the time is right. Blessed be.
2006-11-29 17:02:50 · answer #3 · answered by LadyMagick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, its hard to find a soulmate. To me, partner and soulmate is 2 different thing. Soulmate= someone who like ur soul, two hearts n mind are link to link. Wherelse partner is just another person with spend the another part of ur life together with u, no doubt its meaningful or meaningless.
2006-11-29 16:29:21 · answer #4 · answered by Its me! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well all i can say to that is when I was growing up I always said I would marry a tall blond with blue eyes and long beautiful hair and i ended falling in love with the perfect Hispanic girl no blond hare no blue eyes shes not even tall or skinny for that matter but let me tell you something she is the only girl I'll ever love like this
2006-11-29 16:27:06 · answer #5 · answered by sam C 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sweetheart the best things in life dont have a tag :) you have to look at them and then judge what its worth :)
soulmates ARE for real... trust me.. its not only the looks, dressing etc that matters... the thing that matters the MOOOST is the communication that you have with the person... and the person you ultimately connect with.. is your soulmate... someone whom you can share ur deepest fears, frustrations, problems etc etc without a problem are your soulmates..
and please remember that soulmates are not always people whom you end up with... ppl who are your friends... one of them is a soulmate... you dont have to end up going out with your soulmate only! there is definitely someone out there for you... no doubt about that... but you need to look for that person.. maybe that person is around you already... you just need to realize that... I honestly believe that real true soulmates and people worth going out with are from your highschool or before that cuz there you see the real person...
2006-11-29 16:25:08 · answer #6 · answered by Vantage 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes I think so, it is really hard to find your soulmate that's why relationships fall apart, but when you trully find that soulmate, you will know!!
2006-11-29 16:20:39 · answer #7 · answered by jtgot1 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I believe so because I truly believe that my boyfriend is my soulmate. I believe he is the one I am meant to be with.
2006-11-29 16:24:49 · answer #8 · answered by Isabella's Mommy Expecting #2 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think there are several possible matches for people, because relationships are all about commitment and compromise. That's not to say that there are not special people out there, but I personally don't think there is just one.
2006-11-29 16:21:28 · answer #9 · answered by cotopaximary 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You will never know when he is entering in your life and it is for sure , time for every thing is decided by the great ALMIGHTY , and one is already there for you , have patience and wait for your term .
2006-11-29 16:26:32 · answer #10 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋