Ive been with my byofriend for 2 years and hes not sure if he wants to be in a relationship anymore. I admit ive been dependent on him but thats because my friends have come and gone and i dont really have many people to trust. Hes never lied or cheated. Hes always been loyal and its hard to find that. I dont know whats wrng with me because i do everything for him and try to motivate him in his school work. Ive always been there for him. He told me he wants to spend the rest of his life with me... and i did too.. I dont know what to do. Please HELP. I feel like i have no one. I just wanna sit and cry.
2006-11-29 16:12:19 · 6 answers · asked by Vivacious 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have more talks.Think about it...If u truly love him....you'll get your answer. :)Good Luck
2006-11-29 16:14:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wants to spend his life with you he would want to stay in a relationship, right? first try not to be too clingy or needy. back off a little bit and let him call you / make the move. if he didn't like you he would not have stayed with you for 2 years, so that's a good sign. try to see what he wants. don't ask him yes/no questions. ask an open ended question about what he wants in life and see what he says... Its never easy and everyone feels this way at some point -- trust me on that!
2006-11-30 00:22:43 · answer #2 · answered by azmike11 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
FIRST YOU NEED TO LEARN TO DEPEND ON YOUR SELF
INSTEAD OF SOMEONE ELSE. LEARN TO LOVE YOURSELF
START DOING THING THAT WILL PUT OTHER IN YOUR LIFE
DO THINGS THAT WILL KEEP YOU BUSY WITH OUT ALWAY
DEPEND ON HIM. OTHER WISE YOU WILL BE STUCK IN
A PLACE THAT NOT A GOOD ONE. AND IF HE LEAVE IT
WIILL HURT SOME BUT YOU KNOW THAT LIFE GOES ON
YOU JUST NEED TO FIND YOUR SELF. START BY
TAKING BABY STEPS. IT WILL GET BETTER AS TIME
GOES BY. BUT TAKE ONE DAY AT A TIME. GOOD LUCK
TO YOU.
2006-11-30 00:18:50 · answer #3 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
things will work out himself.
in real love.
there will be a moment during it where
you're going to doubt ur love and maybe even his love.
and no love is easy. it goes through its own path to happiness.
and its ok to cry but remeber you have to be strong to.
because you must learn to be dependent on ur self first.
before being able to depend on him.
hope things work out.
love is endless. and thigns will come.
2006-12-01 15:27:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you get over him by crying and moving on.
recongnize who you are without him.
does he make you?
where you someone before you met him
go find that person you lost when you got with him and begin to feed that person within love and youwill soon see this a experience you can look bakc on,
2006-11-30 00:16:34 · answer #5 · answered by beachgirl90 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go, and at least he is being honest to you....if it is meant to be it will...............
2006-11-30 00:15:34 · answer #6 · answered by qdrama1956 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋