2006-11-29 16:11:37 · 24 answers · asked by Iki 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have a friend who is in that situation. She's so confused because both are very good and loving and caring. She doesn't want to lose either. Do you believe so?
2006-11-29 16:13:58 · update #1
you can not be in love with two people at the same time. you might think it's love, but it's not real. it's lust, infatuation, or being needy but it's not love!
2006-11-29 16:20:32 · answer #1 · answered by *KiM* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband is a jerk ! He has committed adultery ! Some group of friends you have ! If they were really your friends why were you not invited to join them in their games. For him to say he thought you knew what was going on ? Is just pure bull $hit ! Being a man, and having lived thee times your present age, I know that there is no way that he or any other man can love two women equally at the same time ! You as an young adult, I believe, are intelligent enough to know that what I am saying is the truth ! There is no way that your husband even cared what you thought while he was fooling around ! Am very sorry for the fact that you are being used ! There has never been any intention by me to hurt you ! You, young lady, deserve better than you are being treated ! Divorces have been granted for less than he has put you through. What you decide to do and how you handle the future is up to you. Just remember He, is a cheater ! Some will say that once a cheater? Always a cheater.................
2016-05-23 04:07:13 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can be in love with 2 people at the same time. But in such a situation its better not to get involved with either of them or you mess up everything.
2006-11-29 16:30:44 · answer #3 · answered by Blueberry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since, she has to choose one of them, it's best to discuss her feelingswith one of them who comes or calls first in the morning and see how things go with him. If the guy asked out is equally interested, she should tell the other one that she has finally find her love and hpes that he will be happy for her as a friend. Do this before things turn ugly with one or both of them. She knows she has to do this and it is best done and get over with.
2006-11-29 16:55:29 · answer #4 · answered by Smriti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot love 2 guys at the same time, you might think you do but all your doing is being selfish. We weren't meant to have 2 mates only one and when you try to take two you are selfish and it will surely backfire.
2006-11-29 16:17:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, she must be confused. Yes you can feel strong emotions for two or more people, been through that myself, but to really like them at the same level??? No. There has to be one she likes or even loves more.
2006-11-29 16:15:42 · answer #6 · answered by Broken ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi! I know your feeling...I am in the same situation but becareful or you can lose both of them I almost did...I think I lost one of them as a friend and I am hurt now. Don't make it complicated like I did....best of luck to you!
2006-11-29 16:15:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah i do i know i like to guys too they are both really nice cool and funny and good looking lol its hard mixed feeling but just let the ball roll and see what happens....
2006-11-29 16:15:23 · answer #8 · answered by °~°sØccer_GÏrl°~° 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is the most difficult thing to do to love just one man completely you try and divide your attention to two you are bound to loose both and then you will suffer
2006-11-29 18:31:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes sure but only as a friend and not more than that. U can love many as friend at a same time.
But u should love only one as a boyfriend. lol.
2006-11-29 18:07:08 · answer #10 · answered by surya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋