My friends and I seem to deal with this all the time. We're all really pretty/great personalities/intelligent, etc. and have no shortage of dates, but it's like all these guys want is to prove that they can date us, and then they freak out and leave. And it's not that they're "getting some" right away or anything like that - we're not skanks! LOL. I have observed this among my guy friends as well ... they'll be obsessing over some pretty girl, they pursue her relentlessly, and then they finally get a date with her. You ask him a week later how it's going, and he's "over it" ... like, wtf? Is it just an ego thing? Are they just wanting to use us? please shed some light!!
2006-11-29 16:10:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
cuz potatos are hot ... duh!!!
2006-11-29 16:12:31 · answer #1 · answered by Jay G 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Guys get attached to a girl and think, oh, I'll never find anyone better than her. These guys probably won't give up hope until they find a better looking girl that is willing to talk to them, or if the girl just flat out rejects him and tells him it'd never work. I personally think the only way for a woman to maintain attraction in a man is if she is doing the chasing. When a guy chases, he comes off as needy and undesirable.
2016-03-29 16:44:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We idolize and put women in a pedestal without knowing her true self yet. The thrill of the chase whether she would finally notice you or not is quite exhillarating. Then after the catch you realize she doesn't meet up to all these dreamy ideas you have in your head. Then dissapointment envelops us and we move on to the next fix of high. That's why for women it's imperative to not give in right away and let enough time pass to know the sincerity of the guy.
2006-11-29 16:15:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
The Thrill of the hunt, the chase and the catch of the prey, keep squirming to get away and they'll fight harder 2 keep u. Give in and lay down, and they'll throw u back, they are young and doing what nature says to do rite now, they don't need u now, they have lives to live.
2006-11-29 16:14:21 · answer #4 · answered by angel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
cutie: Things seldom are what they appear to be ! This is a lesson of life people, in general, tend to learn. Guys, like girls, tend to latch on to what he or she thinks is their ideal ... only later, to find out that this is what they weren't really looking for. Remember; guys are "conquer"oriented and once they have met their objective - it's history. The same can be said for the pursuit of girls ... here today, gone tomorrow. Love arrives on the scene and arrests this tendency in men and a relationship is born !!
2006-11-29 16:20:27 · answer #5 · answered by guraqt2me 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would not do that. If someone is of sufficient interest to pursue once, it is more than likely that she would be of sufficient interest to pursue again. Of course, if it turned out that she were unsuitable in some way, I'd quit.
2006-11-29 16:25:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Egoistic
2006-11-29 16:12:04 · answer #7 · answered by Evans 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
most guys are full of it. its a game to them. they have no respect for themselves or women. they are selfish. thats why women act the way they do. so keep your guard up and tell your friends to do the same. its the young and older guys too. so be careful. its a game and plz dont get caught up in that. be careful
2006-11-29 16:16:25 · answer #8 · answered by eaglestraces123 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
ok mostly cuz most guys are complete and total ***** ! ! ! ! they run after u and when they get u find out u dont want sex and dump u! ! ! they give us all bad names
2006-11-29 16:16:32 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
lol yeah i do that thing too.. it makes me feel good that I god the date.. but I dont' stop liking her usually the date just went wrong
2006-11-29 16:12:30 · answer #10 · answered by joey 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
afraid of commitment mostly i think
2006-11-29 16:13:59 · answer #11 · answered by scurvybc 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋