He didn't say anything, how might he react in private when i see him? he's always polite to me, i feel so guilty.what might he say ? HELPP?
2006-11-29 16:09:29 · 6 answers · asked by lady F 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
WOW that is a big no no.....I am sure he will lecture you about this_
2006-11-29 16:11:15 · answer #1 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep cool, dear.
A).If this is the first time u did it to him......apologise with some degree of sincerity & with true regret.........n
i). if he is really always polite & treasure u he will forgive u & brush that little incident aside like water off a duck's back.
ii). if he is always nice to u but take real offense & keep this humiliation in his heart, but still pretend to be polite & nice to u.........then he's not going to continue with u........n it's time to say sayonara!
iii) if he took offense.......met up w u......& gives u hell..... then it's o.k......keep quiet till he's blown his top......apologise......kiss & make up. Carbut don't repeat the embarrassment!
B). I this was not the fist time u embarrassed him......... and u did it quite often.......then he'll probably bare his teeth at u .........n carry on as normal.
........but.......u need some conselling & learn to control your temper & hold yourself in a more dignified & ladylioke manner when u go out with him again.
My guess is.......u did it for the first time......as I dont believe any guy would tolerate repeated emabarrassment of this type & let the gf get away with it!
So......dont worry.......be happy.....just dont do it again!
2006-11-29 16:20:44 · answer #2 · answered by sandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should feel guilty. How would you feel if he had done that to you? It doesn't matter how mad you were; you should wait until you are alone before you argue. You should apologize the minute he walks in the door. Let him know that you know what you did was wrong and you can put it behind you.
2006-11-29 16:14:33 · answer #3 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think you really screwed up this time. You need to apologize to him as loudly in front of this friends as you did the unspeakable. This is not something any man or women would want to happen. He is not a child. Apologize to him privately and in front of his friends. He is probably really embarrassed. Good luck and God bless****
2006-11-29 16:12:16 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say ur sorry and tell ur reason of being mad and ur reason for tell him to shut up. it always the best thing to tell him y u say it and he probably will understand n his friends will forget about it. its not like that big of a deal and last forever u knwo.
2006-11-29 16:11:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should apologize if you feel you were out of line. otherwise just wait and see how things go...
he may confront you
or get angry and play games
or just not want to deal with it
or may not invite you to hang out with him and his buddies
or may wait til you bring it up.
2006-11-29 16:11:28 · answer #6 · answered by beachgirl90 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋