Ok. I just had a son. His father put me through pure hell while we were together. He has cheated on me, while we were on the way to the hospital he stopped by the ATM to make me get money out of my account to pay bills, WHILE I'M IN LABOR!!!, not to mention ignores me in the delivery room. I dumped him after that but I do still love him.I hate it but I do. We both worked together at the same job it was a job that I enjoyed a lot and my maternity leave is almost up and I have the choice to go back. I'm not sure if I can emotionally handle it and I don't know where to begin healing from the whole situation.Should I go back for my son's sake?
2006-11-29 16:08:03 · 3 answers · asked by babydoll_y2g 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Never let a man have so much control over you to where it makes you change your whole lifestyle. For your sons sake and for your sake, get over him. Look at your time with that man as a learning experience and keep on going. The best thing that you can do is show this man that you nor your son needs him (but that doesn't mean not to take child support out on him). Heal (fast), Live (stress free), Work (for you and your son). Good Luck, sweetie.
2006-11-29 16:13:55 · answer #1 · answered by shellese2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT REALLY NOT ABOUT THE TWO OF YOU IT ABOUT GOING
BACK TO WORK TO SUPPORT YOUR CHILD. IF YOU NEED
TO SEE THIS MAN THEN DO THIS BUT SINCE HE IS THE
FATHER OF YOUR SON. YOU HAVE NO CHOICE IN THE
MATTER BUT JUST DO WHAT NEED TO BE DONE THEN
MAYBE DOWN THE ROAD START LOOKING FOR SOMETHING ELSE BECAUSE THE STRESS OF THIS
CAN BE SOMETHING THAT YOU DONT NEED. ESPECIALLY
SINCE HE MAY START JERKING YOU AROUND AGAIN. JUST
OUT OF SPIKE YOU KNOW HOW IT IS. BUT FOR SOME
TIME. GO BACK.
2006-11-30 00:14:06 · answer #2 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u should..even tho he is there and he hurted you just ignore him if he comes up to you just walk away..dont give up your son needs everything..
Good luck
2006-11-30 00:11:45 · answer #3 · answered by Lover Duckii Angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋