I was involved with this guys who told me that he loved me very, we broke up then a month later got back together. while bragging to 1 of my friends about him, he told me that my bf has a girl. even the laptop that my bf have it was his gf who bought it. i was so angry i ask my friend who was the girl's friend also to give me her number, i called her and told her everything about what is happening. she cursed him and took back the laptop and everything else she bought for him. I even found out that this lady lost his baby 2 weeks ago. i thought i was pregnant and when i told him he cursed me saying its not his am glad am not. I cried cause i say how could he be so cruel. Could u tell me if what i did to him was right or wrong. me and the girl are now friends and she even mentioned he tried getting her pregnant again while he wanted to come visit me and have sex but i had refuse and am so glad i did because of this. please give ur opinion.
2006-11-29 16:02:10 · 10 answers · asked by Stephanie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You did the right thing. You had an angel on your shoulder when you called his girl like that because things could have turned out alot different.
This guy sounds like a total sleaze. It appears that the only thing he was upset about is the fact he got caught. Now, Sweetie, you and your new friend should go and get tested to make sure that the two of you didn't catch anything from him.
I say this because if he was creeping on the two of you then there is no telling how many other girls he's stringing along.
Good luck and a happy healthy life to you and your new friend.
2006-11-29 16:09:37 · answer #1 · answered by NyteWing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you know the answer to your own question because you wouldn't have contacted the other girl.
It is obvious that he plays dirty and you got mud smeared all over your heart. You can't control another's person's action but you can control your own. So please be careful about the men you choose in your life. A dog is a dog and if you stick your hand in their mouth they will bite.
Now take your negative experience and convert it into something positive. You have found a new friend with whom you now share something in common. Take hard learned lesson and become better at picking your men in the future.
Good luck!
2006-11-29 16:12:18 · answer #2 · answered by Tired of being Mr. Nice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This " guy" we'll call him, is total SLIME. He is a user and an abuser. You did exactly the right thing. Put as much distance as you can ( the both of you ) between SLIME and you. Please let all your mutual friends and acquaintances know about SLIME and what he did and tried to do. His Butt is Grass and you are the Lawnmower !
2006-11-29 16:14:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you did wrong was taking him back in the first place. Why are so many women attracted to scum? Leave him alone and move on with your life.
2006-11-29 16:06:13 · answer #4 · answered by shellese2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you were right. and i would defiently have no contact with this guy he sounds like a loser. You found this information out for a reason to let you know he wasn't worthy of your time.
2006-11-29 16:21:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
good for you. good for her that she was sticking to the woman thing instead of taking his side. some women are scandalis like this.
sounds like you two could do way better than him. good luck.
for future reference, use protection cause it is selfish to bring a kid into all this unecessary selfish drama.
2006-11-29 16:07:18 · answer #6 · answered by beachgirl90 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow.. taht guy shud rot ! thats really stupid of a guy to do that..
its so immature. well you'll find another man, way better than
him.. hopefully..
2006-11-29 16:07:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my opinon is stay away from him and yes you did the right thing he is a peice of ****....good for you ..
2006-11-29 16:06:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of that scumbum!!
2006-11-29 16:06:17 · answer #9 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u deserve a guy that will respect you!!!
2006-11-29 16:05:09 · answer #10 · answered by thegirlfromthegrayhouse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋