i am writing again...i dont know...i am asking for help ...i am a 22 year-old asian guy pursuing my masters. i feel very very lonely and alone. i want to be with someone special. i always dream about white girls but i dont know if my dream about marrying a white girl will ever come true. i am an asian with brown-compexion, and that's what makes me feel otherwise. i have never got the opportunity to interact with white girls and i am scared if i will talk what response would i get? what should i do so that i can fulfill my dream of meeting a white girl who can truly love me and marry me??...seeking help desperately...thanks!
2006-11-29 15:57:40 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
who gives a crap what they will think just go up to them and start a conversation, and if they seem uniterested just walk away and go onto the next one. At some point youo will have to get along with one of them
2006-11-29 16:01:18 · answer #1 · answered by bcuda27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about marriage thoughts, but I CAN tell you that you sure have a shot at dating a white girl. DEAR, don't you know that white chicks love Asian guys! And a dark complexion is certainly a plus! And a man pursuing his MASTERS, that's most girl's dream guy! Don't be shy! Try just saying hello to a girl and practice your best smile. Or really practice that best smile in the mirror; I'm not kidding, it works! And I guarantee you will get great results. Dress a little more modern. Get a modern hair cut by a beautiful professional Hair Stylist and don't hesitate to tell her ,"make my hair look sexy". Hair stylist love to do sexy haircuts. Basically I'm telling you to do some things for YOU. It always builds up your confidence. DO IT. Maybe join a gym, now that's a good idea for any one! Don't feel sad anymore! You're an intelligent, sensitive, dark complected, Asian, Hot ti!!! Think of Marriage after you really get to know a girl. Every one feel sad and alone sometimes,EVEN WHEN THEY ARE WITH SOME ONE!!! Your dreams will come true. And you'll have lots of beautiful, little, Asian-American children that I hope inherit your sensitivity, and your beautiful Asian features. And once again, White girls, allot of them, only date Asian guys! Especially keepers like you!
2006-11-30 01:41:37 · answer #2 · answered by gibson770 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think your asian background is keeping the girls away. You should get involved in some organizations or something like that so you can meet some people. Church? Bookclub? Yes, your dream WILL come true. Don't be ashamed or whatever of your brown-complexion. Remember, we have to sunbathe to get that beautiful brown color. We love it! You need a boost of healthy self esteem. If you are confident everything else will fall into place. Love is on the way. Hang in there!!!
2006-11-30 00:04:21 · answer #3 · answered by butterflylover 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in college and only 22 years old. You have plenty of time to meet a women, when you complete your studies. And if you want a white women, very simple put your sights on one. Ask her out and interact with her. Ask your friends to hook you up. Women are women regardless of race, culture, etc. You need to speak to them, show some confidence within yourself. Most women like a confident man. You should not have any problem finding a women, you are soon to be a college educated man. Just what many women are looking for. Good luck and God bless****
2006-11-30 00:02:12 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww. . . I'm sorry!!! You shouldn't just go after white girls though. There are good asian girls, african-american girls, indian girls, etc. out there. Please don't stereotype them! Just find someone who you can connect with and who you can fall in love with and spend the rest of your life with. And you're young! You're just 22, so you shouldn't be worrying about anything. White girls are like any other girls. If you want to talk to them, go up to them and introduce yourself!
If you still feel the same way, then you should watch Yellow Fever. You can find it on youtube. It's incredibly funny, but it also addresses your problem.
So please do not get down because of this problem. There are plenty of girls out there who might like you, but are too afraid to say anything.
Best of luck with everything!! =)
2006-11-30 00:08:00 · answer #5 · answered by serendipitousgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your dream will come true sooner or later ,You must look for someone special and find it anyway ,she may be not a white girl but there are someone in the world who can fill your life with joy and grace ,try not to be picky when it comes to choosing someone, who is your type and nice ,just in order to be with a white girl .
2006-11-30 00:02:55 · answer #6 · answered by Mysterious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, the problem with smart guys is you get all wrapped up in your own head and over analyze everything.
sure there are white girls who won't date asian guys, just like there are asian girls who won't date white guys.
but... there are plenty of girls who don't care and are just looking for a smart, kind, funny, confident guy. be that guy. smile, look 'em in the eye, don't be a sterotypical asian grad student.
go get em and quit acting like a beeeyotch. step away from the f-in computer, go getta cup of coffee and smile at the chick behind the counter and any other girls you see. cute or not, white or not. If the smile back, say "you know what, it's late at night, I ahve morework to do, and I just wanna say thanks for smiling, now I have your beuatiful face in my memory."
chicks dig that.
2006-11-30 00:02:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Don't be desperate. That's like spraying skunk scent on yourself and asking chicks to dig your smell. Most women worth having want a guy who is his own man - who doesn't need them - but, if they are really, really good to him, he might consider sharing his life with them. In short - attitude should be, "I don't need you. But if you treat me right, I'll take you along for the ride."
2. Build your own life. Don't seek to join hers.
3. Hang out in target-rich environments. Don't snub the babes - but DON'T chase them. Step up, start a conversation, then walk away. If they catch up with you, fine. If not, there are plenty of fish in the sea. (If you aren't getting the attitude, you're going to lose.)
If you reach the point of that level of self-confidence, you'll probably have several chicks coming for you. Pick and choose.
2006-11-30 00:02:42 · answer #8 · answered by A_Patriot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My question to you is why do you have such a need to be with a white female? What is wrong with asian women? I think you want to obtain something that is out of your reach. What I suggest to you is to talk to all the white women you can find who are attractive to you and there you will find your answer.
2006-11-30 00:01:51 · answer #9 · answered by postal_marg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense!!! But u sound like an idiot!! What kind of Masters r u going for ? Masterba...???? You r sooooo lonely and u need only a certain color 2 make u feel complete??? How old r u???
2006-11-30 00:01:45 · answer #10 · answered by angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋